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I feel like I am losing my best friend and it is the worst feeling in the entire world. I don't really want to go into the specifics but basically when ever i hang out with her and her fiance she gets in a bad mood and is kind of rude to both of us. She isn't the person she used to be. And when ever she and I have plans to hang out her fiance always gets invited too. I like her fiance. He is a really great guy but sometimes I just want to hang out with my friend. I feel like she isn't there for me as much as she used to be. And she is becoming kind of stand off-ish. I don't know what to do. She is like a sister to me. Her family is essentially my family but its getting hard to be around her. I just pray this is something that will pass but I'm worried it is something bigger than that. She doesn't like to talk about her real feelings so I have no idea what she is really thinking about or what is really bothering her. I don't know what to do. I just want my friend back.
Perhaps she is not quite well in her head.....stressed...maybe she is struggling with something.
I hope you talk it out and love each other again. xx peace
She was a very private person about her thoughts and feelings. I let her know I was willing to talk about things but I never explained to her how I felt like you did above.
Later our freindship was torn apart over misunderstandings, assumptions and Drama. 2 years after that big fihgt we can stand to be in the same room on rare ocasions, but we definatly don't trust each other anymore, or call ourselves freinds.
If she is a true freind she will be able to talk about genuine concerns you have if you phrase them nicly and aproach her as the friend you are.
If she can't talk about your genuine concerns you have then she probably isn't the freind you thought she was.
You are not alone, others have gone through similar things before.