Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
Hi everyone
Been a while since i was on. Things have been going better, much better. But there is always the feeling of the ground below is actually thin ice. My job is stable, I'm living on my own now, working out and improving health, the work on my book and art is doing well. But i'm wanting to make the next step instead of just resting on my work. I seem to be bulding well and want it to continue into success.
Now that i'm on my own (my mother is now in a good situation). It's been ten years since my last date and I want to start seeking for a good person in my life. i read many of your posts here and see a difficult world to return to. can i ask you all for some advice in what you (women) are looking for and advice (men) on what to steer clear of? My personal belief is that a relationship NEEDS to be more than skin deep and involve the whole of a person; mind, body, and soul. I would be intersted in others and what they feel is a healthy relationship and the important ingredients needed to succeed.
This is a good sight for reaching out when you need help, I feel that many of you have valuable advice from life that could help me and hopefully some of the words i've said help you. Love
But I would like him to be a Christian, easier for me so I don't have to have him upset with me for going to church and all that.
I would like him to understand that having kids is not an option for me. Due to my meds.
I would never, never even consider it, give up an animal for " our " relationship. They are my kids.
The characteristics safe : not abusive, physically or mentally trusts me and someone who I can trust doesn't care if I dress up or not. Is ok with pajamas
Nothing wrong with that. Just don't be IN A HURRY. The typical man is looking for sex. I know, I WAS a TYPICAL man. Takes some kind of time for people to develop true love ... men somewhat longer. Be damn sure b4 moving in, and blah, blah, blah.
Here is my definition of Love ... when my happiness is fulfilled by their happiness and vice versa. When/if it gets like that, you may be on to something. Love yourself FIRST ... and if you get hurt, .. let THAT love for yourself prevail.
It CAN, but rarely, happen the first time. Be wise. Be wise.