One of my sisters won't talk to me either. The odd thing is she still hasn't removed me from her "chain text" list. So I still get all the reminders of things she sends to people she actually cares about.

I have tried and tried to get her to respond, but she won't.

I say this each time. Not trying to preach, just help with peace....Luck...

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.

--Reinhold Niebuhr

And she had no right to tell you who you should talk to , who you should love, etc. What if the positions were reversed?

That's terrible she is so bitter that she would reject you for having a relationship with your other sister. I am sorry you have to deal with that. I hope somehow your relationship will be mended. My only sibling has barely had anything to do with me most of my life

gramybear,
If the positions were reversed, she would expect me to accept it. She was such a great older sister growing up. My mom constantly put us in harms way, & my sister always comforted me. I actually have 3 sisters. The one that is just 2 years older than me has always hated me, since we were little girls. We went through the same hell as kids with our mom & dad, yet she is convinced SHE had it 10 times worse. She picked up where my mom left off, with the beatings. I have 3 scars on my face from her. She & my oldest sister didnt speak for 10 years, & NOW they are best friends & hate me & our other sister. It is nothing but DRAMA, & im tired of it. I feel bad, because my oldest sister helped raise me & took such good care of me. She was my 2nd mother.

Yes it is sad. Maybe one day she will realize what she is missing and come around. Sorry it's like that for you. Hugs

Stay away from ANYTHING/ANYONE which/who is not good for you. That is your privilege.

I understand how you feel. Our son is mad at us because we will not take sides, due to a fight his sister had with his wife. Now, he is mad at us. No Christmas card, no birthday cards for his mother or me. No phone calls, nothing. It's like we dropped off the map.

He hasn't talked to us since June and basically told us the same thing. "if you are going to stay loyal to my sister, then forget my wife and I". I told him that his mother and I loved he and his sister and we were not going to take sides. He said "fine" and hung up the phone.

This is sad, very sad, when families can not get along. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

I have a sister that won't talk to me either. She found out about a 30 year old mistake that I made and told me she hates me. It's been about 2 years, so I guess she does.

I don't try to make her change her mind. If that is the way she feels then fine. I mean what I did had nothing to do with her, it had to do with her sister in law. She chose her over blood, fine.

I mean what I did was 30 years ago, I have worked very hard at changing my life and she knows it. I stuck by her through thick and then when she had some problems she could not handle. But the sister in law is more important to her. Yeah, ok.

You know what gets me? She claims to be a Christian who are taught to forgive, how does this work? She has always been a phony anyway. The mistakes I could hurl her way. She is far from perfect. But I won't. All she cares for is a big house and what the outside world thinks of her. So be it.

It was hard to believe when it first happened. It hurt me very bad. It still hurts, but their is nothing I can do about it.