Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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DepressedRecluse 01/12/2013

I don't feel good...I've been taking my meds as prescribed a whole three days now...and I feel worse than I did before! (Is that normal?)

I am depressed, anxious, restless, exhausted all at the same time...

I have no energy...no strength....I am weak....and I don't want to do anything but lie in bed and watch TV or sleep...

I HAVE NOT ENJOYED ANYTHING IN MY LIFE SINCE LAST JUNE!!!!!!
I want to have fun...and work hard....and go to school...all the things I used to do...but then I don't want to...no...I don't feel like doing anything...

It's not that I don't want to do those things...it's that I don't have the energy or motivation to do anything not even care for my own self...much less anyone else....

I was supposed to volunteer last Wed...couldn't make it - I was sick....

Had a meeting on Thur. night ...couldn't make it - I was sick and no energy...

Had a meeting last night...couldn't make it - sick, no energy, and absolutely no motivation

NOW...I have to go to my moms...didn't go yesterday cause I had a bodily functions accident...and had to come back home...now I am literally forcing myself to get up...get moving...and get going over there so I can get it over with and come home and sleep...cause I DON'T FEEL WELL!!!!!!

GOD, please please help me...PLEASE HELP ME - I CAN'T CONTINUE TO FEEL THIS WAY MUCH LONGER....

ElenaNJ 01/12/2013

Have u been taking the iron pills? That should give u more energy.

etherize 01/12/2013

I haven't enjoyed anything in my life for years.

If you've only been taking the meds for three days, I'd say give them a little more time to work. Maybe you should put off going to your mom's for another day or so.

gordos4 01/12/2013

Im so sorry you are feeling this way...been there, done that. It truly does suck. If you are a spiritual person at all, please pray to God for strength. It really does help. I pray for everyone here at mass on Saturday nights.
Have you had your thyroid tested? I found out that was a large part of my problems. A slow thyroid can cause major depression, no energy, loss of hair, dry skin..etc..the list goes on & on. Just a thought. ((hugs & prayers)))

koolman 01/12/2013

Consult the person who prescribed you the meds. They might have prescribed the wrong thing.

cagedDreams 01/12/2013

it happens (i'm going through same atm). the more you dwell on it the longer it lasts - you've already accepted you're sick and taking steps to get better and you eventually will so just stay calm and ride it out. if others around you don't get it and hassle you for your lack of activity, its just down to their ignorance; you keep repeating to yourself "i'm like this because i'm sick, i'm taking steps, will get better and will stop being like this when i've sorted it out" - its the truth and that's what i'm doing

gramybear 01/13/2013

You know, sometimes I think the medications can make things worse. My doctor and I were just talking about the side effects of medications and sometimes they work against us instead of with us. Will you be seeing your doctor again soon so you guys can discuss your next approach and maybe change up your meds? Some meds will make you very tired, sleepy, and not want to do anything because the body just doesn't have the energy. Maybe even ask your doctor to check you for deficiencies in Vitamin D-3, Iron, and Vitamin B-12. Maybe B-12 shots would help you. And the vitamin needs to have the 3 in it as well as the D. My doc says my taking 4000 iu's isn't too much. Let us know how you are doing. Hugs GB

deleted_user 01/13/2013

I've never had luck with prescribed meds. But that is not to say it will be the same for you. They may work wonders for you if you give them a week to ten days to start building up in your system. As far as the energy thing goes, I know exactly what you mean. When I get seriously depressed my energy goes immediately. Vitamin B12 helps.

deleted_user 01/13/2013

Yup, talk to your doctor.

ZAZAS 01/13/2013

Medications take more than 3 days to work. Give them time. Others will notice a difference in you before you do. Or, they did me anyway. I am sorry you feel so bad. I hope you feel better soon.

deleted_user 01/13/2013

That's exacly how I feel right now. Doing the simplest things take alot out of me. I can't plan anything because my moods change so much. I might be feeling ok one day but then when the appointement comes closer I get all this anxiety and start to feel really depressed and then I end up not going. I quit making plans with friends and doctors appointment. The only time I make it in is if I call them and they have an open that day. I take wellbutrin, zoloft and then they prescribed me topamax but I hate being all drugged up. So my meds aren't working but I hate trying this drug and that drug and it takes 2 weeks to see if it works and they you have to go in for follow ups. No wonder we aren't well. Why do I have to take pills to be normal like everyone else. Why can't I just be like everyone else? My family just wants us to be normal and not depressed all the time. Well sorry I rain on your parade I can't help it.

Kuno78 01/13/2013

Do you think it is possible that you may have a touch of the flu that is going around? I know when I get ill, I also get super anxious. Dealing with that right now actually.

Also, as tough as it is not only does it take meds awhile to kick in and work, but it also takes some time for the body to get used to them. They too can cause a bit of upset stomach and fatigue in the beginning. Still, if you feel too bad, call the doctor. He may switch you to something more mild or cut your dosage slightly and then up your dosage slowly over time. Could be too much at once.

angel1313 01/13/2013

Please try to take it slow have u had your Thyroid checked?
Sending u ((((Hugs)))).
Angel

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