Most of us have been there or are going through it here. You are not loser why do you feel you are?

*hugs* you're not a waste of space or a loser, invisible7777. I will echo dreamshadow; why do you feel as though you are? x

You are NOT a waste of space. But I know what it feels like to feel that way.

Tell us why you feel like you do. You're among friends here. Chances are we've been there.

HUGS TO YOU!

I know how you feel, but it's not true. You are very valuable. You just need
to see yourself differently. You have a lot to give and you deserve to have
a lot given to you. I hope you can start caring about yourself. Life will feel
a lot better if you do. Big Hugs

I have lots of reasons why I'm waste of space
No man ever wants me
I'm 36 and I'll I do is work and come home to a apartment
Have very little money even though I work all the time
My work is addiction way to escape I'm alone
I hate my thoughts
Always alne

I know how you feel too

Everyone serves a purpose in this world, no one is a waste of space. No one is a loser...We are all Winners.

Please be gentle to yourself

HUGS

I realize those are all cliches and I feel guilty spewing them at you. I'm sorry I cannot be better support tonight. Nothing I am saying is coming out right lately.

Your doing just fine with what u said...thanks everyone

Your description of life sounds like a step up from mine. But I know what you mean. It feels like the days are pointless when all we are doing is surviving, not making an impact on the world. But maybe you are having an impact, in little ways that you don't realize. Even a kind word to another person here and there throughout the day makes a difference.

To be honest, I don't think this way of life that most of us lead is natural. We are so disconnected from ourselves, from other people, and from nature. Are there any ways you want to change your life, any dreams that you've had? Don't give up on these; 36 is not so old in the grand scheme of things. You can choose to change your life, but just remember it may take time and patience.

Okay please don't laugh but I have found a brilliant solution,

When you feel sad put a band-aid on the place that hurts the most

Take two children vitamins (two is better than one)

Listen to your favorite song

Then if you still feel sad then you should not feel so bad because at least you tried

Also I don't think your a waste of space and you can't even waste space on the internet and at least you work and pay taxes so you are so not a waste of space and you are awesome,

Also I think it is not your fault that you don't have a man, to be honest I just think all the man are messed up

Sometimes it feels like we are stuck and need to find ways to move forward, even if it's only a little bit at a time. Talking helps.

That's one of the lies from depression. I know it's difficult, but don't let these thoughts take over you. Whenever you have a negative thought like this, challenge it with a positive thought. It may be difficult for you to find positive thoughts while in the midst of depression, but you can do it. I'll share with you the negative thing that I said in my head as I read through this. "Well, at least she works. Look at me. I have to live off of the government. Yay me." So as you can get out of that, I'm on disability due to my illnesses and am unable to work. I'm grateful for it, but it doesn't make me feel good about myself. So I offer you that positive thought, that you're able to work, from my negative thought. Hang in there. Just take one day at a time.

Invisible7777- I know exactly how you feel your not alone on that I think most people who deal with depression get that feeling. Your not a waste of space though no one is. Your just going through rough times I know exactly how you feel. Feel free to message me anything you need help, advice, or just want to talk.