When does it get better? I've been depressed and hurting over a break up for over a year now. We are back together now, and it makes me happy. We are working through our issues and things are going very well. But, I'm still depressed! I know that it is more than just the breakup now it is chemical now, I am truly in a depression. And even though we are back together, and things are going good I don't know for sure if it is a forever deal. Both of us have said that we don't want to waste time and want kids and marriage so I think he's in it for the long haul. But I just don't know. Its kinda like we've started over. So while things are going good, I miss living with him. I want us to be living together again and engaged again, so I can feel secure in this relationship. But, I broke his trust and I'm slowly regaining it back so I can't expect him to just jump back into the relationship. I know it will take time but it is so hard not knowing! How long will it take... when will we be living together again and tell our families that we are back together?