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Just when I thought that I am going to start a new life in the collage after being locked in my house and abused by my parents for 5 years, I met a guy who i thought he is a friend, a close friend, I am not yet sure though
one night we sat and we had a huge argument of whose life is worse, he got mad at me and turned around and said he has terminal illness, brain tumour, we both started crying and I told him about mines.
After that I question myself a lot, if has a terminal illness how come he wants to study 6 years, I haven't seen him take any medications nor a sign of symptoms so is he lying to use me since he asks for me money alot
His behaviour outside my house is different, he ignores me completely, he talks to me like a classmate instead of a friend and he hangs out with a girl who is not his girlfriend
when i asked him about his behaviour in my house he said he once was raped thats why he doesnt like to talk to boys, but its weird psychologically it doesnt make sense he can talk to me privately without any problems
Days passed and everyday showed me a different story of him, he once added vodeka in my drink when he knows my religion forbids me from drinking alcohol, he literally slipped the vodeka in my coke and his excuse was that he forgot, and i was offended but i forgave him..i mean i did the right thing right?
I am confused is he lying about things, is our friendship built with lies?
one night we sat and we had a huge argument of whose life is worse, he got mad at me and turned around and said he has terminal illness, brain tumour, we both started crying and I told him about mines.
After that I question myself a lot, if has a terminal illness how come he wants to study 6 years, I haven't seen him take any medications nor a sign of symptoms so is he lying to use me since he asks for me money alot
His behaviour outside my house is different, he ignores me completely, he talks to me like a classmate instead of a friend and he hangs out with a girl who is not his girlfriend
when i asked him about his behaviour in my house he said he once was raped thats why he doesnt like to talk to boys, but its weird psychologically it doesnt make sense he can talk to me privately without any problems
Days passed and everyday showed me a different story of him, he once added vodeka in my drink when he knows my religion forbids me from drinking alcohol, he literally slipped the vodeka in my coke and his excuse was that he forgot, and i was offended but i forgave him..i mean i did the right thing right?
I am confused is he lying about things, is our friendship built with lies?
ThePepperMan
From what you say, yea, he is not a very nice person. It is tempting to "analyze" him, but I'm not a professional. My read of him, based on what you say, is that he is telling you lies. If he knows that you object to alcohol then that is something he should remember, and to put vodka into your coke is a very big sign of disrespect.
deleted_user
I'm going to honest if a guy puts alcohol or anything in my drink I sure would be mad ask him why he is lying to you he's asking you for money is he going to pay you back. Be careful big hug and a rainbow
charliegirl29
How did your friendship start? I feel as though he is using you. It's just my gut feeling without knowing anything but what you describe and it tells me he is using you.
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