go give her a hug and apologise. Tell her you love her and you made mistake.

Make her breakfast in bed tomorrow and she won't remember a thing about it. Cuddles also work wonders.

Yes, do apologize.

It happens...we all make mistakes...that is what erasers are for.....erase it:)

Yes, go give her a big hug and tell her you are sorry. Tell her you don't know why you got so upset and talked to her that way, but that you are very sorry, and love her very much. She is your Mother, she will see that you are truely sorry.

yea..i apologized..but thats not the point of the post..
why am i such a bitch lately? why am i like this.
WHY is my question.. not what to do =/
but thanks.

yes you are.

You're acting the way you feel, is all. The question is 'how are you feeling about yourself' and why is that? Then what can be done to take steps in feeling more positively.

aw, you are a human and not to mention a teenager. there is a lot on your plate and sometimes its hard to handle all of it emotionally. i will tell you one of my many secret shames: i was about 16 and a half. my little sister had done something and was due a spanking. i did not think it was justified and told my mother such. she thought that i was getting to mouthy and invited me to step to her if i was so inclined. i hit her, and i cannot stress how very stupid this was, and it was on. she kicked my ass and i've felt stupid and like a selfish, evil bitch about this for the rest of my life but i was not in my right mind. i was a teenager and i was trying to find my own sense of self. i was also trying to stand up cuz at school all i did was get harassed by my peers and asked by the younger kids for protection and that whole culture spilled over into my home life at that moment. my point, the things that are stressing you are probably contributing to your bad attitudes. reconcile with your mom, im sure she would appreciate it.

but why am i so irritable?
i shouldnt be like this. i never was like this. so why now..whats causing it?

You will be surprised at the unresolved feelings that are stored up in the pit of your stomach just festering and smoldering away, even at your young age. Do not be so hard on yourself. Please do not call yourself names. You are not a bitch. You can act or talking bitchy but that does mean you are bitch. It very important to watch how we talk to ourselves. You are a being of love. This only gives you a chance to talk with your mom. When you say you are sorry, remember the word sorry is an empty word with out change or at least an earnest attempt to change slowly but surely.

RICHARD
Older than dirt

*sighs* but where does it come from..?
can i blame depression..?

hmmmm, from experience...i pretty much think most teenagers are irritable? they also know everything. :) lol

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possibly depression, possibly you adjusting to becoming a young woman possibly a number of things but not because you are inherently bad or anything.