I deleted all her other pictures but I cant bring myself to delete the last one wich is out of them all my fav so I made it my desktop screen

what I did was the hardest thing I have ever done... I made her hate me and told her goodbye... she needs to be with them..after she left I told her I couldnt leave without telling her the truth about how I felt about her told her even though we fought I was the happiest I ever was and I truelly did love her and always will

Staring at it every time you sit down at the computer is only going to prolong the suffering...if you must save it, put it on s cheap flash drive and lock it away

Im 48 and sitting here crying like a baby... good thing my son is asleep

How long were you two together for? And did you ever live near each other, or was it always an LDR?

Are you a recent divorcee? Is this lady a bit of a boomerang relationship? I'm getting big 'lucky escape' vibes.

no and we knew each other for 2 years and been talking about a relati0onship for a year and a half

a boomerang doesnt fly for 2 years

I am very confused. What's this about a house and children and man? Have you been having an affair with a married woman?

what I want to know is: was she ever yours?

no she wasn't and thats why I argued with her... tell her if she was seriouse about us then why are you still with him... she told him, he kicked her out, she was mad at me for that and he cried and she ran back to him... thats when I knew it would never be... got her mad at me telling her a bunch of lies then left... made it easy for her but still hard for me cause I thought it was real and she really did think I was the better man and she wanted to be with me... in the back of my head I always thought "Im a home wrecker" I felt terrible

I'm really sorry for your pain. The dreams we have of love break all the rules.

And then we learn the rules the hard way. The gutwrenching way. The 'shit oh so THIS is why....' way.

It sucks.

ultimately tho; it's him I feel sorry for. Cos he's been played for 2 yrs. :D And remember she was never going to ever say anything nice about him. Or tell you of any good times with him. That's the bit we're blind to. They're editing the truth massively.

You and him i feel sorry for. Well him more than you. :) But my heart goes out to you anyway. And she's just getting what she's earned.

tomorrow Im deleteing her last picture... just too tired to look for it tonight... I burried it deep so nothing would happen to it

Keep it. I got rid of most things from the J word, and kept only the photos that were on facebook which I changed notifications to private. It's now operating as a geiger counter: when I can look at his pic without hurting, I'll start dating again. :p

Im not that strong right now... I put up a cold front with her but truthfully Im dieing inside

The J Geils Band said it best - "Love Stinks"