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i'm going to try to be Celibate.....

RockNMetalChic
RockNMetalChic
well i've decided i'm going to try this celibacy thing for awhile...... i think about sex way too much in my life and i need other healthier distractions and my cousin just really made me think i don't wanna just be having sex for fun - i want it to mean something-and would like to find someone who really loves me for me and not what is between my legs.... anyways...... i am going to do this - i can do this and dang it- i think i've completely lost my mind- but i'm starting to figure out who i am again..... :) wish me luck peeps!
deleted_user
deleted_user
GOOD LUCK!
deleted_user
deleted_user
wow good luck with that, i think its good idea to do. hope u suceed in ur goal
deleted_user
deleted_user
good luck! I did that for a little while and it did help me. I'm here for you.
RockNMetalChic
RockNMetalChic
thank you- i will need the luck- seeing as i'm a nympho or so i'm told- this is going to be a real challenge for me- and i don't know how my friends are gonna take this news or my family- gonna think i've gone nuts- but hey what can i say - i'm the rocknmetalchic and i'm hardcore- i can do this right?... i think......
Bluefly
Bluefly
I really wish you luck.
I wish I would have thought about sex that way when I was younger. I made some stupid mistakes.
You can do it. Just don't do it,lol. I'm sorry, you know what I mean. Good Luck.
RockNMetalChic
RockNMetalChic
haha- that is hilarious- i love it- u can do it- just don't do it ! gonna be thinking that now all the time! shoot i ain't gettin any anyways- my man is 17 hours away- might as well call myself the born again virgin- but now gotta trick my mind into not acting on the thoughts and thinking purely- omg how will i do this....
Bluefly
Bluefly
Oh, you'll be fine. First of all in my case, if it wasn't for alcohol being involved I could cut my tally in half. I know alot of people will say alcohol is not an excuse, but it was for me. I don't know if you drink or not I'm just telling you my story.

Oh, to be 24 again...born again virgin, I've heard people use that term.

I'll think back and see I remember anything else that might help. My late teens and early 20's were a bit of ablur! LOL You'll be fine!!!
RockNMetalChic
RockNMetalChic
thanks- i'm just addicted to men- and if i had the money i'd deff drink and that would be bad for this goal- lol- but as of now i am drinking cola, and staying away from men..... well in the sexual way.....
deleted_user
deleted_user
good luck i know you can do it!
Juice
Juice
That's the sweetest, most honest post I've seen today. Good luck to you.
Bluefly
Bluefly
That's good. I was just trying to cheer you up and make you laugh.
You really are making a good decision, take it from someone who could change the past if they could.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Can u do me a fav??

SEND SOME OF THAT SEX DRIVE MY WAY!!!!!!
I been celibate for a yr now & not by choice, its these damn meds.

I wish u luck
hugs
Cathy
deleted_user
deleted_user
yeah good luck.
sex and love together is a beautiful thing, wait for that. :)
Juice
Juice
Cathy, I know what you mean. Prozac=celibacy :(
RockNMetalChic
RockNMetalChic
Great now i'm celibate and a 22 year old tattoo artist has asked me out..... not fair - but i can do this - i can do this.... he has a crush on rocknmetalchic- lol....