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I have been dealing with this for a while. I have been single for a while now and been out dating and etc. There is a guy that I have known for a few years. He's nice and we get along but I do not in any way find him attractive. Since I've known him, he's wanted to date me. I did all I could to say no. But I got annoyed and tired of it. So the past few months, he thinks we are dating. I've never said yes but I didnt have the heart to say no again and have to tear him apart so he would get it. So I've never slept with him nor told him about dates I've gone on. All that has happened is making out when ive been extremely drunk. I know that when the truth comes out, he's going to freak. I know that being nice and wanting him happy and to still like me was a bad idea because now it will get bad. I know this makes me a liar and a bad person but I really hate hurting people so I avoid it. Thinking about this mess gives me a panic attack. What do I do? I know the truth will set me free but I will be single handedly be shattering his life. Not to mention all the time he wasted on me for nothing.
I've been thinking about my previous post, however, and actually I am all for breaking it to him not in person, as I would be concerned that he might try to emotionally manipulate or hurt you, charming :( You just do whatever you feel you need to do to take care of yourself in this situation, please.