90s are great grades!You will get into college,you are putting too much pressure on yourself.Enjoy being a teen,there is time for everything else

My love, I would have killed my grandma for grades like that. I think your parents might be putting a tiny bit too much pressure on, or you at least are picking it up whether they're putting it or not.

go humble yourself. Talk to your teacher. What can happen with 'em is they get kids who have learned to swot and cram, and 'fill the jug' of learning but this particular teacher doesn't want to fill jugs. He wants to light candles. He wants to spark discovery.

And until you discover that this is where they're coming from, you're actually pouring water on your candle trying to fill it like a jug, and putting the flame out every time. You can't understand what's going wrong and they can't tell you till your mind opens up enough to ask.

So just go have a chat. It's okay to do this. But go in humble. :)

Your grades are fine I wish I had that type of average in high school I graduated in bottom of my class but was the highest kid in school I think smoking drinking drugging everyday. Your no falure. Go easy on yourself.

Are you kidding? Those are great grades! Just remember that ultimately the person you have to answer to is yourself. Not your parents. Not your teachers. YOU! Set your own standards for your life rather than trying to please people who seem to be very hard to please. Ask yourself what YOU want out of life, rather than what everyone else wants from you. You are obviously very smart. Don't ever forget that.

Your grades are really good i think you shouldn't be stressed ..just take a break and chill for sometime and then set your goals you wanna achieve ,let people say ...its your life your choice ..live life in your own way with more pleasure after all we all gotta one single life .....

You sound like a sweet person, please stop calling yourself names. It's unhealthy and harmful to your spirit when you put yourself down. You suffer from depression and this causes negative feelings. Go to Amazon.com and type in help with depression, check out some of the workbooks. If the depression continues seek out a qualified doctor for medical assistance.
Best of luck, young one.
PS: Some of us truly care and want to end the suffering... Don't give you on yourself!
Lot's of Hugs...

Please don't think of yourself as a failure. First of all, you were accepted at a college which proves that is not true. You are a smart and thoughtful person. You found your way here and posted an intelligent post. As a parent, my only expectation of my children has been to try their best and do the best they are able to do at the time. If you constantly fail at something then perhaps that means that particular subject may just not be something you are interested or good at and that is totally okay. So long as YOU feel like you gave it a good shot at that time in question and in whatever circumstance you happened to be in or frame of mind. (Our mindset, concentration levels, sleep, depression etc) and a million other things, as well as life, are thrown at us on a daily basis. We respond to those things differently sometimes.

Remember that a passing grade is still a passing grade and I think sometimes parents, whilst trying to help their children reach for higher goals and stretch goals, lose sight of life and what is truly important. Some parents are just trying to help but some are really pushing too far and setting a standard that is not maintainable.

If you go and see a Doctor. Do you want to be sure he is a Dr right? Do you want to know he passed his medical exam right? You do not start asking about his grade point average and what subjects he struggled with at school! You Just concern yourself that he is a Doctor. Replace that with Lawyer, Pilot etc. I also think parents sometimes want to re live life through their children. It is totally okay to not be a Doctor or Lawyer and such. It is totally fine to do something else. Working with your hands is honest and respectable. You should try and reflect on what is important to you. What does cakegoddess want? what does she like? what is she good at?

You could think about whether talking to your teacher will help. I would ask them if it were possible to meet with them after class sometime. Tell them you are struggling in the class and you want to do better. ask what do I need to do or what can I do that will help me in this class?

You don't have to ask anything ever but if you do that would be a good way to approach it. That way your teacher will feel comfortable and not defensive, you will be more confident in asking and they will be in a position to tell you what's wrong with your work or what you are not doing good at. Thank them for meeting with you and tell them you would appreciate any help or advice they can give.

You do not have to agree with it but it will at least break the tension that is there now?

Follow your heart but keep your brain engaged. I wish you well and you can do this. Sometimes we just need to give ourself a time out and a word with ourselves. This is about you and your life. Try and align your actions with that goal in mind. It is also okay to not know what your goal is right now. In that case, concentrate on a good general solid foundation to build on. Have you ever heard the song by Baz Luhrmann - Everybody's Free To Wear Sunscreen:
https://youtu.be/sTJ7AzBIJoI
? It is actually someone's graduation speech that was put to music. It is some great advice for everyone!

CG, quit it!!! Don't be so hard on yourself. The advice above.....good stuff!!! Watch that video! Really good stuff!!!
You have much ahead of you!! Pace yourself. Don't do like I did...burn out before you get going good!
It is your life! Quit being so hard on yourself!