Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
Except it probably won't work ... as both parties have to WANT to change, but you have two choices ... counseling .... or the one that WILL work ... divorce.
If it is as bad as you say ... I would advise a consultation with a divorce lawyer as soon as possible.
You may have no human friends....