I believe that Mother Nature will do what she has to do.

Yes. Meeting them is a different story.

oh...and i liked turtled's (woah) reply.

I think there are MANY lovers out there for everyone, each one for certain phases in life.

Yes, I think a monogamous relationship can go the distance (for life), but people have to be willing to continue to communicate about their changing bodies, minds, and needs, and both need to adapt to each other.

Unfortunately, as others stated here, very few people have the selflessness and patience to do that! Society tends to be very ME-oriented. What can you do for ME? What's in it for ME?

Or one loves the other more than the other loves them. Whoever loves the most hurts the most. That's the way it is.

Guess I would have to say yes to that since we all have to love ourselves first...(poor attempt at humor)

Seriously I have found that there is never a medium first nothing then all of a sudden 3 or 4 people in which there is mutual attraction and you have to decide on one person you want to share your life with.

I Do belleve yes i do

I do..... It took me 3 bad husbands and lots of boyfriends, but I finally found him!!!!!!! We have been together for 10 years and I have never been treated so well.

I don't. Nobody deserves all my emotional baggage.