Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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Alliegator 08/12/2008

Ugh. I'm totally not having a good day. I asked my manager for a raise today because I think my time is worth more than 7.50 an hour since I'm never late, I work hard and I have great customer service. She said there wasn't really anything she could do because I'm trying to transfer to Columbus when I go back to school and I have only been working for two months. She wasn't mad or anything but I just felt stupid. It felt awful. Also I'm really nervous I'm not going to be able to transfer because she keeps saying that they probably won't be hiring that many people and I don't have the best availability. Then I had to say goodbye to my best work friend. She is going back to college and today was her last day. I probably won't ever see her again because I'm moving to Columbus once school starts. I won't really be home on breaks. Ugh I just want to forget about this whole day.

deleted_user 08/12/2008

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope things get better soon. *hugs*

deleted_user 08/12/2008

Sorry, but wow, that was brave of you to assert yourself and ask for a raise! Don;t feel stupid about that at all. It was not breaking any rule, and it shows you can speak your mind in a proper manner.

Best work friend leaving SUCKs too. A friend at work really makes the days go better and faster.

Here's to better days coming soon! take it easy. ....I hope you are able to transfer smoothly to Columbus.
peace to you! xx

kiwicsi 08/12/2008

You were right to ask for a raise if you felt you deserved it. don't be embarrassed by the fact that your request was turned down. That happens all the time, and your boss wasn't angry or anything.

deleted_user 08/12/2008

Congratulations for speaking up for yourself. I am really sorry that you had a bad day. Take Care. HUGS. Dawn

deleted_user 08/13/2008

Hugs, Alle. Sorry you had such a rough day. I think that you should be proud of yourself for realizing your worth! Even if your raise was denied, you still did it for yourself. I wish I had the confidence to do it. It is so hard to say goodbye to friends. You are lucky tho, cuz when I went to college, the internet did not exist and the only way to communicate was by phone or snail mail.
Hope tomorrow is better!

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