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Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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doncornelius
doncornelius

ive come to the realization that everyone in my house has some sort of issue. Depression, overwhelming jobs etc. I am the only one who has actually come to terms with it. I don’t blame them in any way, he’ll ignorance is bliss. I just think that if everyone here just came to terms with their stuff that everyone would benefit and we all could make that first step to getting better. It’s a little tough to tell your 60 something year old parents that they show the same signs of depression that you do. For all I know they know that they’re depressed. Sometimes I feel selfish just trying to figure out my stuff, but I guess I’m no help to anyone if I’m all messed up. 

Heidiclark
Heidiclark
Keep working on yourself. If you are strong then others around you will be stronger too.
OlderCPer
OlderCPer
I highly doubt that your 60 something yr old parents are clueless about their own issues, but in their day, you didn't talk about that stuff and you didn't go to Therapy or deal with Pdocs unless you were wealthy or just "batshit, need to be in an institution" crazy. If I were you I'd worry about your issues and taking care of you and getting the help you need. There's nothing selfish about that. You have a life to live and I'm sure you don't want to live at home forever.
Solus
Solus
Depression can run in families. Perhaps they have sought help in the past but kept it private. Oldcper is right - attitudes towards mental health have changed hugely. Focus on you. Your parents want the very best life for you. Seeing your improvement will be a boost for them too. Selfish would be expecting them to make you feel better, what you're doing is trying to get yourself better. Taking responsibility for your health. Keep trying, your efforts should pay off.
SimpsonsOK
SimpsonsOK
Agree with all the above. You may need to be the one to lead the way for the others. Healing hugs.
eli_mom
eli_mom
Hi- I’m so sorry to hear this.

I pray that your family will feel better soon and overcome the depression. Take care of yourself, try to do things that you will enjoy to get your mind off from your symptoms. Have some exercise, try to eat healthy and have enough sleep. You can be an inspiration to your family when they see you doing your best in helping yourself.

I hope all will be well with your family. Please keep us posted, God bless.
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