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Diane-M
Some pretty cool things have been happening that I wanted to share with my friends here, istead of bombarding you with all my negatives.
I have started wriitng as a form of therapy. Some friends thought it was good stuff....and one gave me the link to a book about cats that is published every year. (Love my cats.)
Two of my poems were picked for this year's publication. And so was my story on Frosty the cat and how her determination has affected my life. The owner/publisher actually contacted me about Frost's story, and told me how much it made her smile.
And 2 other pieces are to be published on the blog of my friends at the Rock Star Super Star Project, where they asked me to consider being a regular contributor.
I really do not mean to sound like I am blowing my own horn, but those of you who know me know that i have always felt "less than" and all this attention to my writng has surprised me and made me smile. It has given me hope that there may even be other things I am good at :) And further more.....I'll bet we all have something we can do that can make us feel good :))))))
I have started wriitng as a form of therapy. Some friends thought it was good stuff....and one gave me the link to a book about cats that is published every year. (Love my cats.)
Two of my poems were picked for this year's publication. And so was my story on Frosty the cat and how her determination has affected my life. The owner/publisher actually contacted me about Frost's story, and told me how much it made her smile.
And 2 other pieces are to be published on the blog of my friends at the Rock Star Super Star Project, where they asked me to consider being a regular contributor.
I really do not mean to sound like I am blowing my own horn, but those of you who know me know that i have always felt "less than" and all this attention to my writng has surprised me and made me smile. It has given me hope that there may even be other things I am good at :) And further more.....I'll bet we all have something we can do that can make us feel good :))))))
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Diane, this is wonderful news and I'm so happy for you!
Love to hear happy news. Congratulations!!!
(((((((((( BIG HUGS ))))))))))
LMT
There once was a black cat named Max.
In manners he was very lax.
He made children scream,
when on Halloween
he jumped out from under a fax.
He tugged at the sheets of a ghost.
He was not a very good host.
He made the clown cry,
and the witch yelled "Oh my!"
as he sharpened his claws on a post.
The candy he tossed to the floor.
And ran when they knocked on the door.
He did not want out,
but he did make them shout.
especially the kids under four.
The kids left with all of their loot.
To scold Max the point was just moot.
Cuz he jumped in my lap,
took a ten minute nap,
and I told him "good thing you're so cute!"
In Love With Another by Diane M Gooding
Im afraid Im in love with another.
My husband does not seem to mind.
I admit Im in love with another.
He is cute and very kind.
I confess Im in love with another.
Deny it to no avail.
My heart, it belongs to another.
He has whiskers and a tail.
Frosty, My Hero
Frosty, our 15 year old Maine Coon, is my hero.
After Frosty had a minor medical procedure, she
was blind and unable to walk. I learned some
very valuable lessons during the weeks that
followed her ordeal. She proved to be a very
determined young lady. I am not going to lie
and say it was an easy road for any of us.
She spent the first several days in a playpen
to keep her safe. Either our friend, my husband
or I stayed with her.
We placed her food and water right under her nose
and coaxed Frosty to eat. She forgot the concept
of using a litter box. She cried for almost two
days straight and hated her meds. We had to have
the discussion that all pet owners dread; what
to do if she did not get better.
Frosty surprised us by standing up one day, on
very shaky legs. At that point, the playpen
seemed to stress her out, so we put it away. We
"baby-proofed" the living room with baby gates
and removed items that could be dangerous to a
visually impaired cat. We helped her perform
exercises to strengthen her legs and read
countless articles on how to best help a
blind cat. We watched her hug the walls as she
circled the living room. She practiced walking;
her little legs going in all directions and her
feet coming down with a thud. She was quite the
little fighter. When her back legs refused to
follow her front legs, she turned around and
hissed at them. We had to assist her jungle-cat
efforts when she wanted to climb over some
furniture, but we did so gladly. She practiced
until she needed no assistance.
Frosty relied on others for a while to locate
her food and water, but that slowly changed as
well. We bought a water fountain and hoped that
she would learn to follow the sound to locate it.
We kept her food where it had been before her
ordeal when we learned that blind animals rely
on memory to locate most things. We returned her
litter box to its former location. And it worked.
The first time she found and used her litter box
again, I admit I had tears rolling down my face.
Her walking continued to improve. We placed one
of the baby gates at the bottom of the steps to
keep Frosty safe, but she badly wanted over that
thing. We had to physically remove her from the
gate on several occasions. One day, upon waking
from a nap, I opened my eyes to see her back end
going up and over the gate before I could reach
her. My husband and I laughed and rejoiced as
we took it down permanently.
I really need to stop here and mention that I
suffer from depression. Add in that my youngest
brother passed away unexpectedly three years ago;
and let's just say that I have been going through
the motions and nothing more. But the day I saw
Frosty go over that gate was the day my attitude
changed. I found myself thinking about her ordeal
and her determination and realized Frosty taught
me a few things. When her back legs refused to
follow her front legs, she turned around and
hissed at them. So I have been hissing at my
problems as well. When she was unable to locate
her food and water, she needed to rely on others.
I have learned that it is OK to ask others for
support. I do not have to travel this road alone.
None of us do. But the biggest thing I learned
is to NEVER STOP TRYING. Frosty drove that message
home by surmounting her biggest obstacle, that baby
gate.
Frosty, I am happy to report, has now regained her
eyesight. She walks with a slight limp when she
is tired. And she needs help getting on to her
two favorite places, the bed and the couch. But
that has not stopped her. She still has a lot of
living left to do. And so do I. These days, we
let very little get in our way.
Those are the entries to the book about cats. Once the other pieces hit the blog, I will post the link :)
Your care of Dear Frosty was amazing and I loved hearing his story!
I don't think I could have done what you did to save him!
I think I have a few things to hiss at right now too!