Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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Cheese 04/11/2018

I have never been scared the way that I am now. I just have nothing to do and no way to seek help with things. I am out of work so I cant even afford to get away from things for a while. I wish things werent so dark. Alomg with this I have older parents that are adding to my troubles. Each night I hope for the next day not to come.

Seamus 04/11/2018

I feel for you cheese.
Keep checking Craigslist.... Maybe something will come along.

Try to hang on.... Its easy to lose faith.
Depression creates such a void. And takes away our motivation and energy.

Keep trying, keep posting. Dont give up.........

Cheese 04/11/2018

Thank you. There are so many people that I'm sure its quite easy for some to just be invisible. Ive had nice times in life so maybe if things are over Ive had good stuff. I hope all is good.

bornconfused 04/11/2018

Nooo, the good stuff WILL keep coming for you!

but yes, disappearing and becoming invisible seems like the best thing to do, but its the easy way out and we dont learn anything from taking the easy way, right?

TotalRegret 04/11/2018

Hi Cheese. It's easy to get overwhelmed by stuff - I do. But it's important to recognize what's in your control and what isn't. For example, you have no control over whether somebody likes you and will give you a job, but you do have control over whether you keep at it and apply for the next one. I understand that I'm over-simplifying stuff, but I'm in the same situation, so I understand how you're feeling.

Choose to keep fighting and don't give up - you're worth it!!

Cheese 04/11/2018

I thank everyone for these great thoughts. You are very good people.

Seamus 04/11/2018

Your still young Cheese. Whether you know it or not.

Many good things will come your way. Your overwhelmed by the bad right now. Do your best to hang in there....

SomeGuy092 04/11/2018

I know what it's like to feel overwhelmed. It's good that you some time off for yourself to post this

Cheese 04/11/2018

Thank you good folks..

foreverbeach11 04/12/2018

You've had good times and there are more good times to come. All of us have bumps in the road that we have to get over. Sometimes those bumps in the road feel like mountains to climb. Keep pushing forward a little each day. Your life is important. Sometimes getting away doesn't require money. Have you thought about going to a nearby park and just enjoying the sun and fresh air? Sometimes if we just stay in the house, our focus tends to be on all of the negative things that are happening. I'm not sure what type of help you are looking for (financial, counseling, etc.) but have you considered trying to contact a local social services agency in your area? They may be able to give you some resources to help you out. There are better days ahead. You are in my thoughts.

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