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My life has been less than great lately. I have a close to $2,000 electric bill. My girlfriend's hour's gone from 40 to 24. I can't find work to save my life. My girlfriend and I are fighting all the time. Since we moved in together my list of things to do has grown and her's has somehow gotten smaller. At first we were supposed to share dish washing duties. Then it became my full time responsibility. This is not the only thing that has happened to. We have animals. We have a litter box 1 upstairs, 1 downstairs. I clean the downstairs, her job was the upstairs litter box. Guess what now i clean both. I had trouble with the chores before they grew. List keeps on growing and my anxiety isn't getting better. We keep moving to bigger and bigger places also. She get's home from work she sit's on her butt and yell's and bosses me around. Same thing when she's off. Sit's on her butt yell's and bosses me around. I try to do one thing at a time and before I'm even halfway done I'm told to do five other things. For example I'll be doing dishes and I'm halfway done and my list grows from dishes to throwing out garbage to walk dogs to feed animals to clean litter and more. Meanwhile she's sitting down doing nothing. I understand she work's and I don't but stuff still needs to get done and I can't do It all by myself. The other thing it's not a small thing. I get SSI, she's my payee. All I ask is for $20 a month from my SSI. She makes it sound like It's impossible.
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(2) We are going through a rough spot right now it will pass.
As long as you stay with her things will continue to get worse. I recomend checking the abuse support group for advice on how to leave her and find a place to live.
http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical-Emotional-Abuse/support-group
Abusers like her are VERY rarely able to ever see how what they are doing is wrong and change their ways. In some cases they may be able to act as though they've changed, but this only lasts a short time and is typically done in order to try to get their victim to stay with them.
He no do it. He shut up.
sometimes you have to stand up and say 'bog off you nazi' - otherwise they will take more and more territory from you until you are in an abuse dynamic. You're going that way: and the way to stop it is to get up off the floor. They can't wipe their feet on you if you get up off the floor.
So have a chat with her. Talk to her about making a roster. She can write these tasks down, if she feels she must, but not to discombobulate you by dragging you from one task to another.
And just remember: you have to feel loved. You are a person, not a vacuum cleaner. Stand up for yourself. :)