I came to this site for different reasons, one of which is my depression. I have been depressed since I was a child. My current trigger for this depressive episode, is my marriage. I have been married to my current husband for almost 2 years. It was okay, but it gets progressively worse every day. I have barely spoken to him in a week's time. He suffers from a TBI (traumatic brain injury), which he received in an almost-fatal auto accident (which was his fault). The thing is, one of the effects of his TBI is that he stays angry all the time, he is depressed, and he rages. He is verbally abusive (but he says he's not abusive, because he doesn't hit me); he is critical of everything and everybody; and he is lazy (yet, he calls everyone else lazy). He always finds the bad things to talk about when my child is concerned, or even my family. There's never a compliment. If I drive his car, he fusses about me putting gas in it. Mind you, I'm the one that puts most of the gas in it anyway, even if he's driving it. He does not know how to handle money, and he squanders money and gas by going to his shop (he's a barber), but he doesn't have any customers. If he gets any customers, it's just enough money to put gas in the car to get back home. This cycle repeats every weekend, while I stay struggling with the bills, and my sanity, and maintaining the home. He doesn't pay any bills, and, if he comes up with any money, it's few and far between. I have tried my best to make this marriage work, and I have just now given up (for the last time, this time). I thought some time ago, that I wanted a divorce, but now I am 100% sure. I go to bed early, because I am so depressed, I hate to be woke. It's hard to move my feet. I feel stuck. This leads me back to my depression, and the depression leads back to the migraines, and the rest of the body pains. I am in pain every day of my life. It's just a never-ending cycle. I need to share my story with others, and gain some insight into these issues. Is there anyone out there that is married to a TBI victim, and can relate to what I'm talking about?