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red47640
red47640

I am fed up with barely being able to make ends meet. I am fed up with a shitty commute. I am fed up with dealing with bitchy people. I want to visit my family for Christmas and I asked management on the 3rd and they have still not gotten back to me. FUCK. I just had a visit from my downstairs neighbor; apparently, when I am getting ready for work around 4-5am in the morning the floor creaks and he can't sleep. He suggested that I walk on the balls of my feet. I told him I would walk in my home however I pleased. I've had dates that have led to absolutely nothing. I am sick of this bullshit. Why is it so motherfucking hard to live, to work, to fall in love? FUCK ME

billwfriend
billwfriend
sounds difficult with work....
Bobby5000
Bobby5000
Good luck. I think a good employee should be able to deal with and cater to 96% of the people. Where I disagree is the notion of catering to everyone, and I've told my secretaries to alert me if I any potential client looks too difficult and not to take an undue amount of sh-t. One thing you can be if someone is too difficult is simply to put them on hold, you smile, put them on hold for 2 minutes, and if they act up, next is 4.
peterthegreat
peterthegreat
No one have a perfect life. Even though I do not work or go to school I only see my family and my doctor. Shit still happens.Try to see something good in life. Things you still enjoy. People that you still like.
Restful
Restful
I can’t believe the neighbor told you that! It’s not like you wake up at 5 AM playing loud music. What an asshole.
lucillegem
lucillegem
yea that neighbour is just being silly. warm hugs! your not alone.
koolman
koolman
On the barely being able to make ends meet, shitty commute and dealing with bitchy people, I know whatcha mean.

At least you're still in ANGER mode, haven't given up on life. This is good. Way to tell off the oversensitive neighbor! Tell him to buy some earplugs!

Now, maybe some positive visualization would help. What kind of life do you WANT to live? Plenty of money to be well ahead of the bills, working from home so no shitty commute, take time off whenever you want, dates that lead to spectacular sex and a warm, wonderful relationship where there's love, laughter and lots of positive stuff to talk about. Champagne, strawberries, caviar...

It might be time to start a home-based business on the side or telecommuting job where you can roll out of bed, make some coffee, fire up the computer and go to work. Does your current employer offer telecommuting as an option?
Bluebird20
Bluebird20
I am in a similar situation. It can get to you sometimes, dealing with shit. Sometimes dealing with the unhappy parts of my job I make a list if what is good about it. It is difficult to deal with the public and a lot of backlash from people. In my job there are only a small percentage that are very difficult. I bought a book 5 Good Minutes at Work, which has many good suggestions for people issues and emotions at work. I do not remember the author's names. Good luck to you.
red47640
red47640
Thanks everyone for the positive thoughts, these are all great ideas. And yeah, I'm not tiptoeing around my apartment lol. It's not like I'm blasting Metallica or dropping shit early in the morning. My neighbor can just deal.
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