Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
whatswrong19
so I got my thanks but no thanks letter for last job I interviewed for. how come shittier workers than me can get new jobs like going out and buying lollipops? there are many here among us, who feel that life is but a joke.
Intentional33
Sorry that you did not get the job. I know this is difficult but try to consider the fact that the candidate may be in a similar situation. Many people have a difficult time finding employment yet hold on to hope that the next time will be their time. Your time is coming.
SimpsonsOK
Agree, your time is coming. Once asked a coworker who was obviously very successful with interviews. She said that she did her homework and attitude. I needed a bit more info so she shared further. She would research the company for the why do you want to work for us question. She had also looked up some other typical interview questions. She then flipped the script, meaning she was the one deciding if she wanted to work for them. Some folks pad their resumes, which is unfortunate, but may get them a job. Good luck as you move forward. Comforting hugs in the meantime.
Hephzibah
My husband and I moved a while back and I've gotten so many no's for jobs-even simple ones that I know I would do well at. I got some phone calls and one place wanted me to come to a job fair. Don't know if you've ever been to one of those but it felt so awkward and I ended up walking out. Maybe in my spirit I just knew it wasn't the right place. Then I ended up with 3 surgeries, so haven't been able to work anyways. I'm waiting for the right yes, the right door to open at the right time. My husband doesn't really want me to do the same jobs I always used to do anyways. This may even push my husband and I to start our own business. Your door will open. I'll be praying for you! <3
whatswrong19
thanks for the replies. I've done my homework as far and interviewing, to make sure I do them well. there are people here, esp in admin who want to keep me here doing the drudge work I've done for 11 years, and passing info through the grapevine as soon as they find out I've applied somewhere else, i screwed up and told someone here about it, I was very excited, and was overheard by an asshole who shared it with admin. so they made sure to block my chances I'm sure, next time I just have to keep shit quiet.
whatswrong19
most of the people here are young, and don't have much feeling for other people, especially if you're older like me. they are far to busy trying to show how cool they are to each other.
Hephzibah
Sounds like you must be such a good and valuable employee they didn't want you to leave! Hope this week will bring better things for you <3
AnnieToman
it all comes around, its their turn now, be painent your time will come. right now may be the time when only lesser jobs are available that requires lesser then type of people. when the time comes when they need a more skilled person to fill a job it maybe your turn then. don't worry about what you can't have now, there always is a reason for things to happen the way they do. its just a matter of understanding this and being happy with what you have. the universe has a way of doing things, it only supplies what you truly feels you need.
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