Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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RockNMetalChic 02/25/2008

Just wanted to say i'll be leaving this site for awhile , i will still check my emails occasionally and my hugs - but i feel that my joining in conversations on the community boards has offended some people and i would hate to make others feel bad - so i'll be the horrible person all by myself and i'll leave.... i will take it into consideration about coming back- but for now this is just best for me- this will be my last post for awhile and maybe forever- haven't made up my mind yet but at this moment i'm thinking of leaving DS all together- they say words can't hurt us - but thats a lie they can, especially when someone is going through things and they are vulnerable- i never thought words would hurt this much though- so unfortunately i'm a weak person and i can't take it and just move on like most - i've been emotional about stuff like this my whole life so this is my problem and i guess i just thought i had finally found a place that i fit in and was accepted and had a place i could get help as well as giving it.... but nobody has to be offended or worried about me now cause i'm leaving.... to everyone who has supported me- thank u all ! i wish u all the best and goodluck with whatever u do- thank you for all ur positive advice and helping me .... much love from the RockNMetalChic- aka Brandi ..... :(

MaRhianna 02/25/2008

Don't leave, we all have bad days. I'm sorry someone has hurt you, it happened to me about 2wks ago. But come on, pick yourself up and dust yourself down as the song goes, start all over again.
((hugs))

deleted_user 02/25/2008

I think we all go through that stage at some point. I know I did but rather than leave I decided to back off and be selective about what I posted and to whom.

You have to do what you feel is right for you and like my mom always kept telling me "not everyone is going to like you but that's ok"

deleted_user 02/25/2008

huh? what happened? I wish you wouldn't go. maybe shake it off.....Grrrrr at the person who caused this! xx

deleted_user 02/25/2008

i dont know whats happened hun but just take a little break if you feel you need to, no need to leave.... big hugs. xx

deleted_user 02/25/2008

Please don't leave. I've been hurt here also but the good friends and good posts outweigh the bad. I hope you feel better...and please stay. Big Hugs.

MaRhianna 02/25/2008

Can we help RockNmetal?
Anyone know what happened to her. She was doing well with the petition I thought.

deleted_user 02/25/2008

I have no idea either.....I was confused on her other thread...

deleted_user 02/25/2008

Apparently the petition was against the ToS or something and someone got snarky about it to her.

deleted_user 02/25/2008

Poor chica, I totally agreed with her.

deleted_user 02/25/2008

dont go we wud miss u

deleted_user 02/25/2008

Please don't leave Brandi. You are my best friend and have helped so many people on her and so many people. We all need you and you need us. This is hard for to type because I am crying right now. I love you so much, Please don;t let her leave.:(

deleted_user 02/25/2008

well we were told to not post things for Doug or things on here that we wanted ds to change...but there's a post on the top about the thread...I am still confused...I asked doug to see about the privacy thing on a message..well I haven't slept maybe I am confussed..

RockNMetalChic 02/25/2008

yeah i'm just too stupid to help anyone anymore jen- i really am - i'm horrible and i hate me- so why shouldn't everyone else- i want to just dissapear for awhile ... i will be back thursday and decide if i'm leaving the whole site or not then...... but for now leaving posting on the boards is just not good for me..... sorry... luv ya'll :(

deleted_user 02/25/2008

Just remember I love you and always will. I can't live without you.

deleted_user 02/25/2008

Awww hun I don't know what happened ... but I really wish you would stay .... I know one person that is going to be devastated.... she is a mutual friend and was telling me how VERY much your friendship means to her .... and how much you have helped.!! So, please don't let the members that are mean to you force you to leave us! Do not forget we are getting that ignore button soon!!You have as much right to be here and post your feelings as anyone does regardless of what they may think! There are quite a few here that think this is their site and they have the right to treat others anyway that they see fit!!!WELL THEY ARE WRONG!! Many of us hope that you will stay!!! We are here for you and love you .... so just remember that when those OTHERS treat you badly .... remember the source! I am so very sorry you have been treated badly ..... please stay? Much love and God bless!!!!!!
BIG SQUNCHIE MEGA HUGS too!

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