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I feel that im alot more capable in life then i have been so far but i always make excuses in my brain why i shouldnt do something how do i knock down this wall does anyone have advice on this cause i know i can be succesful in life if i break my own barriers.
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You are so right. I have lived most of my life in the shadows thinking can't do this or that because of my own silly excuses. When I finally got an idea and followed through, I went from living my life in my own little world, to graduating with honors from college at the age of 40. There really are no limits except those we place on ourselves. For me, it was just keeping my eyes on the goal and not allowing anything to get in my way. When the road got bumpy I got more determined. Good luck and know you can do what you want to also.
richierich
Yeah i know i need to get a plan in place and not let anything get in my way like you, thanks for your advice.
deleted_user
Yep - I do this a lot too. I have learned that when i put up the wall to tear it down one brick at a time. Set one small goal rather than trying to focus on everything at once.
deleted_user
if i could break my wall down i will give you the instruction manual
deleted_user
Build yourself a ladder and go over the wall. Seriously, work on the tools you need to build strength, self-confidence and determination and go for it. Throw things and people out of your life that are trying to keep you down, at least shove them to the background for awhile.
deleted_user
i have mine up now. it is stopping me from getting hurt again
deleted_user
If u ever figger it out, plz, write a book on it so we all will know. I tend to push ppl outta my life. Luckily, my hubby is a big man & he dont get pushed.
richierich
my wall is a massive wall, im a good climber so im gonna try and scale it, start off with studying, my life is a bit of a mess at the moment, some of it my fault some of it not, just got to leave those excuses to one side, i want to my a pc technician and i gotta go for it 100% otherwise i will never pass.
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