Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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searchingforbalance 02/07/2018

Everyone hates me. I can't do anything right and I constantly diassapoint my family, friends, people I don't even know very well. I can't work, go to school, or hold a commitment. And what's worse is that people say "this isn't you" like I don't already know that. I'm not stupid....I don't miss class or break of a commitment bc I want to, it's because I physically CANT do it. I freak out. I want to stay in bed forever and never bother anyone. Because on those days where I am in bed and my parents come to "check on me" at night, I know I didn't miss anything. I know they didn't miss me or need me. They're day went on perfectly fine. They don't need me in class, my friends have other friends, my family has other things to do. I'm just at a loss for what to do.

djaneeh24 02/07/2018

Thank you for sharing, I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. Maybe you should try to focus on yourself more instead of worrying about what others think of you. Once you start to become more knowledgeable about yourself everything else will fall into place. I hope everything works out for you and that you can overcome this depression!

LastAcorn99 02/07/2018

I believe that the people around you may not necessarily know how to get through to you, even if they want to help. You mentioned that your parents come to check in on you -- that is love and concern right there! I’d suggest that you take the time to explain to them how you’re feeling, especially your parents, and allow them to get you the assistance you need. Sending prayers for you, friend! ((Hugs))

eli_mom 02/09/2018

Hi- I'm so sorry that you are feeling this way. Please know that we are here and we care for you.

Try to talk to your parents regarding how you feel. I'm glad that they are checking on you, it shows that they truly care for you. Please check with your doctor and I hope you will feel better soon. I pray that you will overcome this feeling of depression. Thank you for sharing. God bless

whatswrong19 02/09/2018

I described some feelings like this to my psych doc, like not wanting to be around people or be a part of things anymore, I think for me it was that I had and sometimes still have a difficult time setting boundaries with other people. that's why I end up with those friends who want to be up your tailpipe every day, but I do have some good friends, not like the needy ones.

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