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Friend19
Friend19
So I did something I would have never done before because of my anxiety disorder. I totally asked a guy for his digits and facebook. He said yes, and within an hour he sent me a friend request on FB! Even if we never speak again, I'm just so proud of myself. I really don't know where the courage came from, but it feels good. Anyway, despite work being a drag, I'm having a bomb ass Friday, and it's all because I pushed myself out of my comfort zone. Something we should all do more often, right?

BIG HUGS
deleted_user
deleted_user
So did you call or text him? Whatever happens I think it is great that you took a chance. Good for you!
heretic
heretic
Glad it worked out for you.
Cypressmoon1
Cypressmoon1
Holy Cow! That is a great day!!!! Right on!...
PinterestFan
PinterestFan
That takes a lot of courage! And, within an hour, he sent you a friend request - that probably doesn't happen that often.

Every positive step is success.
koolman
koolman
"Something we should all do more often, right?"

Right! Damn right!
alltheprettyflowers
alltheprettyflowers
Yeah but you dont know the outcome, a lot of people out there are scum. Its like opening up an emotional door for them to come in and shit all over your soul. Be vigilant, its not healthy to be a naive optimist.
BlueYonderDreams
BlueYonderDreams
Good for you and thank you for sharing. I am trying to break out of my comfort zone as well, but I don't think I am ready to do ask a guy for his number. You are braver than me!
topspeed
topspeed
Good job! I appreciate you sharing this post and admire your courage to 'step out of the comfort zone.' You're an inspiration to the rest of us with social anxiety.
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