sorry for your frustration,

may i ask why you still live with them?

(((hug)))

I have no where else to live:(

sorry babe to hear of your troubles. hand in there...

This hurting me loads. all i am to this family is a slave get treated diffantly to my brother. :(

i know it's hard, but you have to just hang in there. it won't last forever you know...

feels like it is lasting forever and ever. wont change. I got family therapy on tuesday i wonder if its gonna help or im gonna walk out

hi, it sucks to have to clean. plus, at 22 i'm sure you don't want to clean up after your parents.

can you see yourself having a studio of your own? is it possible?

I'm so sorry you're so frustrated. But your parents aren't treating you like a slave they are simply trying to teach you some responsibility. You are 22 and living in their house. If you don't like their rules you can always leave. If you are not helping them pay rent or bills then you can't complain about what they ask of you. If you had your own place or lived with someone else you would still have to clean up it would be the same thing unless you want to live in filth. Until you learn how to take care of someone else things and take on small responsibilities God can't bless you with the big stuff. Honor your parents. I was kicked out of my father's house at 19 with no where to go I'm 29 now and I wish I could go back home and have someone telling me to clean up. Talk to your parents let them know that you can't clean up cause you made plans but you'll be sure to get to it when you get a chance hopefully they'll understand. Try getting your priorities in order if you know you have to clean up and you won't have time to do it tomorrow do it tonight so you don't have to hear their mouths. Stop being selfish and whining like a baby. The more you complain the longer you'll stay in the wilderness. You're grown if you can't take it in your parents house then its time to start making preparations to leave the nest. Just remember there is always going to be rules to follow no matter where you go or what you do. Cleanliness is next to Godliness so give your parents a break they don't want you to be a nasty woman.

Whether they are being fair or ot they are your parents and deserve respect. You in turn are an adult and they too have to show you respect as well. Instead of blasting out with frustration and sounding like a child (in their eyes) approach them and TELL them you are willing to HELP with the chores but you have commitments at a specific time and that you are going to honour them. Get up a little early show some intiative and when its your time to get ready and go you do just that!

Couldn't have said it any better than HOPEFUL 01 or Equalizer. Gawd- to still have those kinds of "problems".

I do pay rent to my parents. But each day doing chores is a bit to much i think. three times a week i wold respect but not everyday doing the whole house. sorry i dont think i told ppl it was everyday and how much i have to do everyday.