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please help me before i say or do something stupid. well really long story short we took in a family memeber and its like everytime i turn around I am freaking cleaning up after them!!!!!!!!!!! So today I got really upset and flipped out when i walk into the bathroom and see the floor alll freaking wet and all the clean towels wet on the floor!! I am sick of cleaning up after them, time after time I tell them. I am done with them.. how many freakin times can you try wokring it out?>?> Its not healthy to have him live here, its not even like hes my family yet, its my boyfriend couisn and ever since he moved in here he always have to try and show that I am wrong in someway and it really pisses me off, It could just even be the place i shop is not good enough!!!!
so after i saw the bathroom mess I Throw the towels at my boyfriend cuz he never says anything to his couisn and his cousin doesnt listen to me so whats the use?? then my boyfriend got irrate and told me I schould take it out on his cousin but if I do that I said i would make him leave!!! Then my bf started fighting with me and i said just let me cool down for 10mins and then he told me he couldnt leave me alone because of the personal thoughts i told him. Northing suicidal. so i think he was just being a jerk and he really hurt mne by using how i personally feel inside against me. Now idk what the the heck to do. Here I zm sitting in the bedroom and not nowing what to do about it all when i got to get up rewally early. i am about to walk away after what i struggled so hard to have after a year....
i dont know how to calm down with this much anger and being upset
so after i saw the bathroom mess I Throw the towels at my boyfriend cuz he never says anything to his couisn and his cousin doesnt listen to me so whats the use?? then my boyfriend got irrate and told me I schould take it out on his cousin but if I do that I said i would make him leave!!! Then my bf started fighting with me and i said just let me cool down for 10mins and then he told me he couldnt leave me alone because of the personal thoughts i told him. Northing suicidal. so i think he was just being a jerk and he really hurt mne by using how i personally feel inside against me. Now idk what the the heck to do. Here I zm sitting in the bedroom and not nowing what to do about it all when i got to get up rewally early. i am about to walk away after what i struggled so hard to have after a year....
i dont know how to calm down with this much anger and being upset
Everytime the slob makes a mess, take his mess and throw it in the middle of his bed. Dirty dishes, dirty laundry, wet towels, clutter, etc.
I had to do that with an ex with all her clutter. It worked. lol
Eat off paper plates and throw them away...let him watch his own dirty dishes pile up in the sink.
Do your own laundry and let him do his.
LOVE Kaino's idea of tossing everything else in a big pile on the bed!!!
If your boyfriend gets mad about it, just explain (not while fighting, just talking) that it's not fair to move his cousin in (or anybody) and expect you to clean up after them all the time. If he's got a big problem with it, I don't know what to say, but if he thinks about it, fair's fair, and cleaning up after another adult all the time isn't fair to you.