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Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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Littlelooloo
Littlelooloo

I have been away from this for a long time but nothings been okay. I am struggling to find a job because I'm so young and the problem is that I feel like it's the key to me becoming better. I want to get out of toxic friendships that are making me feel used and constantly upset. I'm beginning to feel completely lonely and drained and I cant seem to figure out how to fix it. I don't have anywhere else to meet new people and if I break away from my "friends" now then I'd be even more alone than usual. I also can't talk to them about this because they don't understand mental health so I'm stuck in this limbo that's just making me constantly have anxiety and panic attacks. I'm beginning to just feel sick of it all and thoughts of them caring if I was even around keep coming to my mind.


I just don't know what to do 

jclark152
jclark152
What ki d of job do you meed? Something easy that can pay the bills and get you by for now? That would ease some anxiety wouldn't it. I feel the same way these days about friends. I spend a lot of time reaching out but nit being reached for and i don't know why. Are you diagnosed with depression? That alone can change everything about your perception of life. Things really are okay, everything is was it is, no more no less. Its how we feel that makes it seem one way or another. And if we feel like crap because of depression, its really hard to see the truth.
jclark152
jclark152
What ki d of job do you meed? Something easy that can pay the bills and get you by for now? That would ease some anxiety wouldn't it. I feel the same way these days about friends. I spend a lot of time reaching out but nit being reached for and i don't know why. Are you diagnosed with depression? That alone can change everything about your perception of life. Things really are okay, everything is was it is, no more no less. Its how we feel that makes it seem one way or another. And if we feel like crap because of depression, its really hard to see the truth.
Wilson674
Wilson674
If you can't find a job you could also volunteer if money is not an issue. Just one hour with new people can help you find friends. We are also here if you need :)
Littlelooloo
Littlelooloo
Thank you! I've considered volunteering but money is what I need. I guess I don't need to pay bills as I'm only 18 and I live at home but I also don't get much from my parents so I need to earn money to get basic needs such as clothes and such. Money has also been part of the problem with my friendships before as I couldn't join in wih any of the plans. Thank you for your comment though :)
sharaninmd
sharaninmd
Do you know what type of job you want and do you want full time or part time work? At your age, you could probably find a job at a resturant, fast food place, shopping malls or retail stores, etc. You would have the opportunity to meet others and make new friends. You will make a lot of new friends when you post on this site. You will find many who have a lot in common with you. In regard to people not understanding mental illness, they are unable to understand because they have not experienced a mental illness. Good luck
quaymat321234
quaymat321234
If you can't find a job you could also volunteer if money is not an issue. Just one hour with new people can help you find friends. We are also here if you need :)
Jade_roses
Jade_roses
I can relate with the toxic friend situation if it helps i had this "friend" who became obsessed and made me feel worthless and tried to make me relay on her more. I ended up cutting her, blocking her and going to group and getting third part opinion and things are good. and don't worry you'll find new people who will love and support you like people on this site