Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
The older I get the more I see that I am married to an man with anger, gaslighting, communication issues. With narcissist traits. We have been together for 25 years and married for 22. Our kids are 24 and 18. They have both stated over the yrs that I care more for him than he does for me, and it shows. I feel more like his mom than wife. He can be fine one minute and spasing the next. We all just say oh gosh here he goes again. The littlest thing can set him off. Lately he has been very mean and vulgar. He has health issues which I stay on him about its like he is my 3rd child. I feel unappreciated walked over and worthless at time not to mention my own ocd and panic disorder.
He doesn't treat you right and he's mean and manipulative. You know what? I think you should talk to someone. Once I had an unhealthy relationship (abuse) and I called 311 and they gave me a phone number to call where I spoke to someone for about 45 minutes. After the phone call, I felt better, and then they referred me to a few places. So it's not a bad idea to call 311 they can refer you places for help.
Try to reason with him. I wish someone had gotten through to me sooner. If he really won't change then maybe you leave. I hate that this thing exists it just turns you into a monster. Now I feel like dying from the regret, no will to live anymore. I hope you can find peace.