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After being sexually assaulted by an old man at wo

invisible7777
invisible7777
how do I become comfortable again when he is around even in a group I
KeeP my distance I dont want him do that in front of everyone.today he asked me come over to him I just walked away and he asked" why are you scared of me). I didn't answer.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You tell him you are not scared of him ...more disgusted (or repulsed)than anything else.
DO NOT let him see fear and NEVER admit to anyone if you are scared of him. Good for you keep your distance!!
Community LeaderThePepperMan
ThePepperMan
DId you report him to the police? Statute of limitations do apply, but they can be rather long.

People like this really deserve to be taken away in matching bracelets!
invisible7777
invisible7777
It was a work, he'd on the seniors that live at the the lodge I clean. I just want to not feel embarrassed and anxious around him all the time someone else might notice
deleted_user
deleted_user
You'll become comfortable around him whenever you feel comfortable around him, and that might be never. It's not anyone else's feelings that need to be considered here.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I may be completely wrong here. But you may feel uncomfortable because you feel ashamed and degraded. That's how I felt when a previous boyfriend sexually abused me. What he has done is a sick, disgusting thing and is not a reflection upon you. You have done nothing wrong. You probably already know this but its one thing to know it and another to believe it.
Maybe try discussing this with a friend? There isn't much for them to do but it can help just having someone to listen.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I just wanted to convey my support and empathy. I do agree that you need to keep your distance and take legal action if needed.
OLDBIKER
OLDBIKER
I don't know what this man did but, he should be reported either to your supervisor or to whomever this man answers to. If he did this to you, he could do this to others.

This type behavior is not acceptable and he should be held accountable for his actions.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree with biker. Tell him also, if he fucks with you again that you will rip his sack off like a paper towel.

Then see who fears who.
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