Wow your life's barely begun and you want to end it? Hi Jaiden what more can you say to give us a little more details on the troubles going on for you.

there is so much to love about living....you haven't even begun to work out there in the world and earn money to buy cars and food out with friends.....you need to talk to mom and dad about this and if not them then call these hotline numbers.....

USA: Hopeline (Suicide): 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
USA: Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-8255)
USA: Teen Covenant House Nineline: 1-800-999-9999
USA: SOS Teen Hotline: 1-800-355-0660
USA: Directory of local helplines / centers

Hi Jaiden my name is Carrie I have a daughter that is 14 she has a lot of drama with people at school and at home her father and I are going through a real hard time but it would devestate me if she was thinking like that now last year she was and told me about it I immediately got her into counseling tell your parents how you feel they will always be there for you you have to much life left to live if you need someone to talk to please feel free I get what your going through bc of my daughter I am going to friend you right now

Jaiden

I often thought about committing suicide when I was your age but I got help. Tell a guidance counselor or friend you trust. You need to get your feelings out it's not good to keep them in

Also teenyouthline is a peer to peer help line putting you in touch with a local teenager at the call center. 877-968-8491

Hi Jaiden, please, please, please take everyone's advice and call a hotline or reach out to someone you trust! I know it can be annoying to be constantly reminded how young you are at 13 - it was for me when I was that age too. But I promise you, at 13 you have so much life left to live, and so much time to find happiness. If you reach out and start to work on these problems now, your life can be whatever you want it to be. Please give yourself a chance to live.

God loves you. Seek him. He put you here for a purpose. You have a job to do. Do not abandoned your purpose. You will see, do not let the devil side track you. You have a purpose. Pray and believe, this is a test. Hold God's hand. He will never leave you nor forsake you.

Darling you're saying all this stuff and I wonder if you really mean it, and I really hope you don't. You need someone to remind you of the long view.

This is your life. 80 yrs probably. And about 20, at the beginning, are spent under the thumb of parents. Parents can be good, or bad. School can be good, or bad. You can be born in finland or the sudan. You can be raised by quakers or by isis. You can be shot for stealing a loaf of bread, or fed macdonalds every day.

Anything can happen in your rearing and you can't choose a bar of it. You can be at a good school or a bad school. You can have parents who understand you, or parents who don't.

But what you do have to do is survive it. Because after you escape your upbringing you have 60 yrs to have fun.

That's right. You spend the first 20 yrs hating it. but you spend the rest of your life learning how to play the game, and liking it more, and more, and more. And you realise that what you learned in your hateful childhood has actually been REALLY USEFUL in your adult life, and saved you a lot of hassle. You realise you laugh at things that traumatise other people. You're way ahead!

So don't despair. Just grit your teeth, clench your fists, and say 'fuck'em'all, I'm gonna win this in the end.' And go talk to the school counsellor. And let yourself fall apart in counselling; because coming unglued is actually part of offloading. I can always tell people who get regular counselling now, because they're relaxed, and cheerful, and they feel okay about themselves. Way less strung out than other people.

You have such a long life ahead of you love. Things will change only for the better, life gets hard for a while but with prayer and talking to friends, counselors, teachers, or family they can help you through this tough time. Things wont be bad forever though they seem that way. Keep your head up love. You are loved and needed by many.

I left a reply yesterday. Apparently, it has been deleted. I was not aware that our comments were censored and deleted if not found acceptable to our editors. I thought we could be truthful with each other. Apparently, there is a line of attitude and speech that has to be adhered to. So sorry. I won't comment again.

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Hey bud, I'm 47 and have been through depression most of my life. You are young! You have many years to find hapiness. I know at the moment it seems unbearable. Depression makes you feel you are not worthwhile and everyone hates you. This is a common symptom of depression. I didn't like it at first, but a psychologist did help me through many issues at your age. Please find help or call a hot line for suicide. Call 1-800-273-8255
Available 24 hours everyday. Please hold off you have a lot of life in you, I don't want you to miss it! Feel free to contact me bud! I have been through a lot of hell, maybe I can help lead you out of it! Ted

Reasons not to:
1) You have a future
2) You have the potential to be unique
3) If you do, you won't have what YOU want
4) We like you :)
5) Don't give up your one chance at life
6) You probably don't want to be known as a quitter
7) There's always a way out (non-harmful)
8) You don't know what will happen after you do it
9) Don't you think it would hurt?
10) I could give you 2,000 reasons why not to

Your parents won't always be there for you, I know for a fact mine weren't. Make your mark in life......be the better person.

But there's not a point in giving these, because it's YOUR choice.
Hope you feel better ((hugs))
•Also nice to meet you Jaiden
-skii

Hi Jaiden, You are so brave and so smart to come here and look for help. Your life is important, you are important, you matter, and you have a lot to offer even if it doesn't feel that way right now. I hope you are reading these post of all the people who are rooting for you. And though we don't know you as well as others in your life, it matters to us to if you give up on yourself. Death may seem like an escape but how do you really know it is? There is proof all around, in this world that things can change, that things can get better, but where is your proof that death makes things better. Please carefully consider that. We can reverse the choices we make in this life when we see they were to our harm rather than our good, But death and what comes after is un-reversable. Is their a school counselor, family member, church member, if your family is religious that you can reach out to. Even more share what's going on with our Mom and Dad. They may be getting divorce, which is in no way your fault, but rather their junk, but when it comes to you, and your well being, i bet they will do whatever it takes, together, to make sure you are okay. No matter what is going on around you, your circumstance does not define who Jaiden is and the unique individual Jaiden was created to be. Let us know you are okay buddy......