Ok, I haven't been on much lately. A while back, my father went to the doctor with breathing problems and spent a few days in the hospital. My sister and relatives came to help take care of my mother and visit him. I only went twice. So, he came home, but without a diagnosis. That will have to wait until some of his problems clear up for more testing, but he's doing better. The relatives stayed for a few more days and went back home. Guess who has to do everything now? Unlike my relatives, I know how to operate the medical equipment they gave him. Unlike my sister, I can cook (I can't , however, season very well. I think these fries need MORE salt) and also clean well, when the mood strikes me or when I'm not told that it's women's work. I was staying up at night due to my grandfather when he was here and wandering around the house, but now I do it to make sure nothing happens to my father. I've been sleeping 2 hours at night and 4 hours during the day. Noting happened until last night when his breathing mask became askewed. Oh, did I mention I have to care for my mother as well? I know this sounds like a self-centered posts, but one thing I hate is when people drop by, doing a little thing and then criticize me for not doing enough and leave.