Friend,

Don't do anything to hurt yourself. Life is worth so much more than you may think. You will be fine. Forget about the boyfriend and move on. Life is worth living and you are worth being in it.

Christine

What a fucken douche!

Sweety, heart-break is a killer, I so understand. But you deserve better than that bullshit. Over text???

You want to chat? I'm here.... you can message me....

I'm so sorry you're being put through this. I can't imagine how hard it must be to deal with things changing so fast... And through text message none the less. Maybe they will change right back again soon too... But you deserve so much better than a jerk like that. Stay strong, friend. We're all here for you.

I agree that your life is more important than this breakup. Right now you feel cut off from the greatest source of love that exists in this world and that's the love of God. He loves you more than you know and wants to comfort and support you if you will let Him. You're not alone and you do have friends here at DS who will listen to you any time you need it. Break ups are always painful, but you can get through it. Believe in yourself as I believe in you.

Oh sweetheart...very, very sorry...he may have gotten frightened by the emotion and backed off? Still, I agree, very douche-y behavior.

Don't hurt yourself. There is NO relationship on this earth that warrants that. Certainly not somebody who would do this the way he did.

Gentle hugs...I know this hurts like hell...but try as hard as you can to take care of yourself. Do things that have calmed you in the past. Surround yourself with support. You will get through this.

tht asshole basicly showed u he doesnt deserve ur love. dont hurt urself cus of him. just cus he was the first to say it doesnt mean he will be the last. u will meet others and one day someone is going to make u feel soooo good. hes going to love u for u no matter what and u will love him and everything in life will suddenly make sense to u. all u have to do is make sure u LIVE to see tht day. all life is precious. dnt toss urs away on account of some guy whos not worth the tears u have shed. u deserve much better. be well sweety.

What a cad!

Don't let him have this power over you!

I cut him off completely, even his sister...Was that the right thing to do? I'm afraid of hurting him or pissing him off more and I don't know why. He's probably reading this too because he has a DS account:(

no,no and no!!! I agree with the person that said do not give this person the power..you are worth so much more than that!!I don't know your age,but I just recently spoke with a young girl,15 ish,anyway,shebuilds her whole world around her boyfriend..not betraying here cause yall don't knowher..anyway..this is a great disservice to you..and who you are.girls,especially compromise so much when they fall in love or think they are in love,some adults do it too..now my husband IS everything to me,I'm blessed..but I found out along time ago,he is not responsible for my happiness.I know it's difficult to see thisnow while you are in pain,but try to step back and see who you are on your own..I'm sure you have much to offer..and I'm not talking about to a guy!!I have been over this so many times with my 2daughters and it breaksmy heart to see this happen all the time..were you not a person before he came into the picture? with my daughters I think it was the fear of being alone,rather than the guy truely being the love of their life...I know this is coming from a different perspective...I was once just like you!Please don't be so hard on yourself!!Iwill pray for you

Only a true coward would break up with someone over text message. I am so sorry hon. Breathe. Honestly, in my mind, a guy who could do that isn't worth being upset about...although I understand he was your boyfriend, so obviously you are upset.
Sending you many hugs, and hoping each day gets easier from here. xxx

hello friend .... your hurting is shared by everyone here ... you are not alone and never will be ...

I'm not "Dr" Phil or Dr. Drew, but I can share with you that you deserve and will receive greater love ... trust that. If you desire that, you will have it.

An old pal recently asked me on vacation, "How can you live alone? I could never do it." My response, "While I want someone to love and live alone and am lonely, I'll never really be alone. My faith is powerful ... and this (situation) will pass very soon."

Of course ... he didn't quite get it ... but I'll bet that you and other new friends here who support you do ....

Two days ago he told me he saw us being together in a long term relationship and that he loved me. Well he has been saying that for a while. Then yesterday he got his school text books... and then dumped me today. He says I always get mad at him for not talking to him but thats bs. He asks me if im mad and I say no. And I'm really not. I don't know why he asks crap like that, he would do it all the time. Was he trying to find leverage or a reason to break up with me? Today I woke up and noticed for the first time since we have been together he did not text me good morning. and I DID NOT GET MAD... I simply said you seem quiet today... I'm sorry for rambling but In my head nothing makes sense. How can he take all of that back so easily...SO EASILY in one day if he really meant that he loved me? And if he didn't... Why can guys lie to girls so easily? to be broken up over a assumption...ASSUMPTION of what MIGHT happen is so stupid. I doesn't make sense to me. I don't think this ever will. I wont trust anyone that says they love me anymore because of this.

It's not just guys, girls do it too....

People fucking suck. PERIOD.

Nothing pisses me off more than mind-games. Love is a serious thing, it's meant to be special. But some people toss it around like it's nothing.... just a word.

You'll trust again, if you remember what I told you earlier.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Honey, I know your heart is breaking right now and I totally understand...heart hurt is the WORST.

You did the right thing by cutting contact, yes. It will hurt, you will feel an overwhelming desire to contact him again, but do your level best to keep from it. The pain will start to subside and you will stop looking at him through rose colored glasses and you will see him for what he is. I am guessing he is probably completely immature...hopefully he will grow out of that stage soon.

At any rate, I know it doesn't feel like it now, but you will love again. I will tell you from experience, I truly believe that most of us (not all, but many) don't find that true love until well on in our life, after we can learn the lessons we are meant to learn.

Hang in there sweety,,,,,it's really will get better.

{{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}

Panic attacks can be brutal and they reside mostly in the thoughts we keep...which is the worst place for them...hope that you are doing somewhat better...talk it out ,,,if only on here ,,that is the best remedy//

neil