Yesterday was a bad day starting with not feeling up to taking my trash out.  My day sucked, for the most part.  Around 6:30, my Aunt called about the tornado.  Then she said she needs me to come over so that she can pay her rent and she needs grocery money.  Months ago, I nearly had a nervous breakdown, or maybe I did have one, mostly over my Aunt but also some other factors in my life.  I made my cousin aware that I could no longer do anything for her mother.  My cousin was sympathetic and has taken over doing some things.  But things keep falling back in my lap.  I told my Aunt last night to have her homemaker do the things she needs done.  She said no.  I am NOT going to her apartment to pay her rent and then go to the bank and then back to the apartment.  Her paranoia is what makes her not trust her son and granddaughter.  She is so stubborn.  I am anticipating a call from her.  I may not answer.  I have been dealing with her crazy, annoying, depressing, demanding, stubborn, lying self since 1995.  I could go on and on about my problems but this is long enough.  I know all about boundaries but I don't get respect when I say no.