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As I stated before, I don't date, am not looking for a relationship or planning to get married. Nonetheless, I do get comments because of my age. To this list in the article below I would add two additional statements:
"You do like girls/women, right?"
Do I find women attractive? Yes, but I choose to ignore that aspect of myself. Yes, there are times when it will creep up ( I was fond of petite brunettes), such as when I'm extremely depressed, or maybe the rare redhead, but I have no use for it.
"You're not gay, are you?/Are you gay?'
No, I'm not. Just because I tend to have more female companions, tend not to notice a woman in a low-cut top, tight jeans, etc(which will cause me to stare in the opposite direction should she bend over in either direction if I happen to notice) walking by, find the whole wearing make-up and clothing choices confusing, and can talk with women comfortably and am willing to buy or go buy certain items/products(No, ma'am. I don't work at this Victoria Secret) they may need, doesn't make me gay. How does respecting women do that? Also, just because I'm not in a relationship or married at my age doesn't imply that either. Not everyone is meant to be married and perhaps there would be fewer hurt people if they realized that.
"19 Things You Should Never Say to a Single Person"
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/89007/19-things-you-should-never-say-to-a-single-person
"You do like girls/women, right?"
Do I find women attractive? Yes, but I choose to ignore that aspect of myself. Yes, there are times when it will creep up ( I was fond of petite brunettes), such as when I'm extremely depressed, or maybe the rare redhead, but I have no use for it.
"You're not gay, are you?/Are you gay?'
No, I'm not. Just because I tend to have more female companions, tend not to notice a woman in a low-cut top, tight jeans, etc(which will cause me to stare in the opposite direction should she bend over in either direction if I happen to notice) walking by, find the whole wearing make-up and clothing choices confusing, and can talk with women comfortably and am willing to buy or go buy certain items/products(No, ma'am. I don't work at this Victoria Secret) they may need, doesn't make me gay. How does respecting women do that? Also, just because I'm not in a relationship or married at my age doesn't imply that either. Not everyone is meant to be married and perhaps there would be fewer hurt people if they realized that.
"19 Things You Should Never Say to a Single Person"
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/89007/19-things-you-should-never-say-to-a-single-person
how do you answer that?
People are so stupid and presumptuous sometimes..
Shall check out the link.
I intend on getting married one day not for many years yet, I still have a lot I want to do on my own first. My Aunty asked my Mum the other day whether I'm engaged yet. I'm 21! what is with the world.