Ummmm perhaps talk to him and get some compromise in there, that seems very one sided

*hugs*


xxx

this doesnt sound like RESPECT to me

-sigh- Ive tried talking to him... 7 weeks worth... Im done talking... Im dripping sexy over here, and he cant stop and paw at me for 5 mins? Im not talking sex per say, Im not even talking HEAVY petting, just a little attention... make sense?

Yes it does make sense this is one of the reasons I fell in love with a woman cos she treats me with RESPECT, LOVE, KINDNESS etc you need more that what he can and will give to you I say leave him you deserve better

Get rid of that self centered looser hun.

im afraid to be alone. after my past, i cant take it

To be honest hun I would rather be alone than be treated like this

To make things worse.... last night AND the night before I told him I wanted to "play" ;-) yah.. and I let him know ahead of time to save some energy and everything, and both nights he fell asleep. -cries- Is it just that I'm not attractive to him? Is he REALLY that tired? HELP!

Hun get rid of him you need to find someone who can love you for who you are and not for what they can get from you. Please listen to what I am saying hun GET RID

I just.. IDK what to do now. We had AMAZING sex last week, and then when I ask for it this week... nothing. Told him all he has to do is stay hard, and I'll do the work, but he keeps falling asleep... I'm allowed to cry right??

-cries-

I know how tiresome talking can be.But has anything happened with his work/friends/family that he may be worried about? There may be some underlying problems in his mind that is making it difficult for him to show affection. I am not aking sides, but it could be a possibility.

On your side why not just leave it? Dont try to instigate it.Maybe jsut try and get him to sit with you watching a film, or go for a walk holding hands. Then take things as they come?

I hope I dont come accross as offensive, just trying to suggest something else x

You need to take care of you now hun

Tell him you think theres something wrong with his dick and that he ought to see a doctor about it....


that might motivate him.

interesting idea trying, but we watch movies curled up ALL the time. His job hasn't changed, he works for the county, he has job security, and his parents and siblings are fine. so IDK. Im just at a loss. maybe he just doesnt want me anymore???



-cries- *thinks to self* I knew it

You really should drop him like a bad habit hun. Believe me, you CAN do a lot better.