Of course you deserve to be loved. If you have been able to determine that you are drawn to :
"the ones who gladly take my heart and rip it to pieces"


Then maybe it is time to be very aware of the type of guy that you are/are not drawn to.....and don't settle. xxx

It's the pasture yer in. I used to bash myself in the head wondering Why people treated each other like shat here. But then I recall the Wonder years while in college years ago and being exposed to people not from this aberrant culture. Sure, they have their own aberrations -but I'll take a double load of them compared to what I typically come across in this republic! lol

First though, ya gotta love yerself and not worry about the gazillion times that people let ya down. It'll happen because people have expectations of love and romance and strawberry fields forever.

Second is ya havta be willing to broaden yer horizons and investigate thinking outside the box, and fishing outside the bowl.

Third is ya havta keep yer smile always -be it through sick, twisted, black humor as I am so fond of -or through watching tweetie birds and cuddly puppy pictures at sunset -you decide.

But just so ya know, nobody deserves anything. That's a false expectation. If ya happen to get love -be thankful. It's a fickle and fleeting thing quite frequently.

i wondered why i went wi a guy on an off for a year ( he cheated everytime)ripped my heart till i have none left.
people treat me like a piece of dirt on there shoe like i am nothing noone to them.
i no what its like feeling unloved by those around you who should love you for you but dnt they love who they believe you are or not at all.
hugz an best wishes.

I don't get how someone can claim to give you their entire heart, and yet tell you the biggest lie of lies ever and then have the audacity to leave you without so much as a goodbye. It makes no sense to me.

Some people are just takers and users and prey on ones they see that have a heart and they know it. You just have to learn to know the difference between those type and the ones who genuinely care.