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princessatmey
princessatmey
why do i have to cry when my bf dosent text bak or texts late.why do i have to cry when he nvr asks me to go out with him an his mates(who bring there gfs). i feel so silly and clingy its jst not me. i love him at least i think i do but i can only tel him through txts.
whats wrong with me i used to be so independent and nvr give a boy a second thought.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I would cry too if that happened 2 me! Maybe you should tell him how bad it hurts you. If you don't express ur feelings he wont know. Maybe you should break it off with him because somethng should kind of fishey about that. You are young (not saying I'm old.) You have so much time to find a boyfriend that respects you! Don't settle for anything else but the BEST....because YOU'RE WORH IT!
ElenaNJ
ElenaNJ
can you go out with other friends? maybe that would help you. to try to make some new friends but still be friends with him.

hope you feel better
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sounds like you need something else to occupy your time. Try to spend time with other friends. You are so young to be focused on someone that isnt giving you what you need in the relationship. Perhaps you just want to love him if the words cant come out. You dont have to love him romantically he just may not be the one for you! Try not texting him at all unless he text you or treating his text the way he does yours. Maybe you should write a list of things you expect from a boyfriend and then ask yourself does he do these things if not change the relationship to friend status. Hope things work out for you!
deleted_user
deleted_user
next time he texts you, or asks you to go out , say you are busy. being too available is something pple dont like, never quite figured that out, if ya are a couple, care about each other, enjoy each others company and all that. but thats what ive learned from the bumps in life.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree....being too available is a heavy burden to some people. It makes them feel too responsible for your feelings. It may be that he loves you but is scared of the neediness. Find other things to do....don't always be available....don't play games, just build your life around YOUR heart NOT his.

Remember, you can design your own style of love....it can be a dark, heavy coat, a free-flowing silk blouse or a soft, warm comfy sweater. You choose.