Depression - Teen Support Group
Teen depression is marked by persistent sadness, discouragement, loss of self-worth, and loss of interest in usual activities. Depression can be a temporary response to many situations and stresses. Teens may be more susceptible to depression due to the normal maturation process, the stress associated with it, and conflicts with parents as they become more independent.
People say you can't get attached to a guy/girl in a month of being with them, and of 3 months liking them. Wel i'm a prime example that you can. I was with this guy who I really liked, and saw a possible short term future (because out of the 4 relationships i'v had, the lonest was 4 months). He was an amazing guy, had few flaws but nobody's perfect. Then he breaks up with me a week before his 19th birthday. He ignored me all day, I phoned him, and that's when he dumped me, sayig he has no feeling for me any more. I was completly crushed. I seriously was, and because i'v given up on drink and SI, it has been the worst road to recovery ever. I'v had depression for a long-time. In this period of time of when my ex broke up with me, I'v lost all my friends, because apparently I'm 2 depressed to bother with, and I try and talk to some peple about this boy to friends and they blank me and not talk about it. The only reason he's still in my mind is that he's talking to me still because i said we can still be friends for the sake of my frioends, because we share the same group of friends. The group i can trust are the one's where he is in. Now, latly he has been saying such sweet things to me, wants to hold me, wants to cuddle me, wants to kiss me, says I will alwys be beautiful whether we are together or not. I thought I was over him, but him saying that, and him saying he wants to come met me again, and go shopping together again, has just completly destroyed me again. My friend who knows him just said if you get abck with him he's jus goin to get the sex he didn't get then fuck off again. N he probably will. I usually go from boy to boy in liking terms, but i havn't this time, I don't want to be with anyone, I jus want this pain to stop. :'(
You can't have a true relationship if the only thing that makes you happy is another boy.
I think you need to tell him to fuck off and focus on yourself, if you want the pain to stop you need to face it and be stronger for yourself first.
But that's an opinion let's see what other people have to say...