i can totally relate! ive never had a boyfried before and i feel like i never will cuz im so fat and ugly. but i guess we just have to believe in ourselves and put ourselves out there. and plus ur good looking so u have that going for you! and ibet your a nice person and i bet you have a lot of great qualities about you. you just have to embrace them.

I use to feel that way. Ive always been over weight most of my life and never had guys tell me that i was attractive. Now im in a relationship...i had the lowest self esteem and i was able to find someone who finds me attractive and who loves me. You can too. It will surprise you, just make sure when it happens that your somewhat ready for it because realtionships are hard! I sometimes miss being single. Maybe you should just join a flirt site and flirt, post pics, that'll give you an ego boost and you might meet someone.

I'm sure you're not ugly (and you ivanaxox).
And people that judge you for what you look like really are not worth the time and most certainly do not deserve you, because you're a more beautiful person than they'll ever be.
'You are beautiful, no matter what they say...' :) xx

Yeah I second that. Also, being single isn't the end of the world. You can use the freedom to do a lot in your life. For example, you could use the free time to work out if you feel like you don't look good. Just using the time to try and improve yourself is healthy mentaly and physicaly. If you just sit and do nothing nothing will happen.

I feel the exact same way. I've never had a boyfriend, and I so often find myself thinking "am I really that repulsive?". Just remember you're young. You still have plenty of time to find someone who will love you for who you are.

I understand. I have had those feelings before and I have friends that go through what youre going through. The important thing to know is that you dont need a guy to make you happy. I know it sounds clich but all in all its true. I think that people have knocked you down in life and thats why you hate yourself when you break up with people. You start to have this mindset of oh this guy will make me happy etc but than once that person leaves, you become depressed and what not. Sorry if I sound weird in this comment cause I really dont know you and all but if you want to talk im here. :)

First of all, you really arent ugly at all so dont ever feel like thats why!
But i always feel the same, like everyone else has said. I've never had a boyfriend before and I'm 16 now, and it always gets me down coz i think nobody could possibly ever love me as im so disgusting.

But, even though its hard you need to remember that ur a lovely person and what we think people see in us is totally different to how people really perceive us. You just need to have a little belief in urself and know that its not ur fault as depression generally makes it harder for us to think positively and start relationships.
You can do it! :)