Depression - Teen Support Group
Teen depression is marked by persistent sadness, discouragement, loss of self-worth, and loss of interest in usual activities. Depression can be a temporary response to many situations and stresses. Teens may be more susceptible to depression due to the normal maturation process, the stress associated with it, and conflicts with parents as they become more independent.
2 bad I started trusting him. My barriers were ready to shoot up and block him out. I love him and then he just ends up playing with my heart. I physically hurt, and iv fainted 3 times this morning and its only 1pm. I can't eat, sleep, or think. I can't breath properly either. I don't do any wrong in my life and I'm not a bitch so why do I get all manner of shit that pushes me back to my drink problem and cutting. I'm hurting more than i can explain. All iv had is being played with by lads that should like me. I hate the fact i sed i love you to him because it wasn't true, and I'm ashamed at myself for saying that. Does anyone know how i feel or have any advice on how to deal with this? :(
I know exactly how you feel, it's hard to feel so strongly for someone and then have them mess with your emotions and play you. But you have to know that it's not your fault. You had no way of knowing what would happen. Sometimes we get so caught up in our emotions that we say things we later on regret, even if they weren't exactly negative things. But think about this; wouldn't it have been a lot worse if you actually did love him? The funny thing is that guys will say I love you to so many girls without even meaning it, just to get one thing. But if a girl says it and doesn't mean it, she completely hates herself for it, which is hardly fair. You might have made a mistake in saying you loved him, but you can't hold it against yourself. At least now you've learned not to say that unless you know you truly mean it. If you don't love him, he's not worth crying over, and he's not worth feeling sad or depressed over. Chances are you probably regret spending so much time on him, so don't spend anymore time feeling guilty or depressed because of him. He won't be the last one who hurts you, but one day you'll find someone who will be the first that doesn't. Keep trusting, and stay strong. :)