Depression Supporters Support Group

This community is dedicated to spouses, children, relatives, co-workers and others who are actively supporting someone suffering from depression or other serious mental illness. Depression can bring about intense sadness, melancholia or despair that has advanced to the point of being disruptive, which can have a grave impact on the ability of others trying to help.

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Drepressed Husband

JennReyn
JennReyn

my husband seems happier when talking to other women and thinks that having a relationship with a guy is awkward. I don't think he's being completely honest but I think being a parent and a spouse is causing his depression. Any advice? Thanks!

whatimeantosay
whatimeantosay
My husband is a completely different person when he's in a social setting. I am so much more attracted to him when he's in that mode. I think depressives can turn charisma on and off, which is maybe why he seems happier talking to other women. I'm not a big fan of talking to men either. haha

Maybe try marriage counseling? At least that would give you a safe place (after a few sessions) to ask him if he enjoys being a husband/parent and explore how he feels and why.
JennReyn
JennReyn
I've thought of it. I know his therapist would like to meet me and, I think, see where my head is. There is a lot going on at home like kids and a new house, things like that. He's on medication for major depression.
Girlfriend24
Girlfriend24
My boyfriend is like that I feel like he would rather talk to anyone and women more than me. It's not the case according to our couples therapist. Maybe he is too stressed and feels like he's getting attention from them. NOT SAYING YOUR NOT but in my boyfriend's eyes I don't when that's all I do
RobCinMtP
RobCinMtP
For what it is worth: I have always had stronger friendships with women than men. In fact my best friend is a woman. I can understand that being tough for a partner to accept. I am sure I would struggle with it as well. I know there are people who are unfaithful and are not true to their word. I know that once you get hurt by somebody it is hard to trust another. I can't speak to your husband's honesty, but I can tell you it is possible for a guy to not relate to other guys. I've felt that way my whole life.