I kind of wish that it did work like that. I was never very good at the whole entice and pursue game of love thing. I am a horrible flirt, it just comes out goofy. I am married now and I really don't miss the dating game.

I'm not thrilled about the dating game, but I do enjoy flirting. It's really exciting to see her respond to the way I'm smiling and talking with her, really soaking in her beauty...I can see that it excites her too. I just have to know when to "go in for the kill", take that first kiss...guess gotta line up a date first...I've only been flirting with bartenders while they're on the job lately...going back to true.com now...

Well I can understand if you're just looking for a friend,but I see you bring sexual relations into the mix. Which clearly makes things more complicated.

Humans have instincts. We choose partners based on what we're attracted to physically with the other criteria following afterward. It's a normal process of elimination in choosing those that don't fit into what we're comfortable with,and ultimately seeking in a partner.

Do you walk down the street and think of wanting to have sex with every single woman you see? No. You have your own preferences of size of woman,physical traits(hair color,body shape etc) THEN comes the personal interests.

It's also common for people who are together,to go separate paths due to personal journeys. How many people HERE have left partners because of their changes with codependency issues? My point,is life isn't simple to navigate through. Not every partner will fall into your lap and rid you of your utter loneliness and sexual frustration. It's a negotiation of sorts. Lives have to fit to a certain degree and the interactions have to be comfortable for both.

Yes, I'm looking for a friend first, then a sex partner. I'm first trying to establish comfort, then begin talking about the subject of sex and find out if there's any interest. And, yes, it takes time and effort.