Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
wish I could find a more consistent place
I was doing really well. Felt better than I have for a long time.
Moving house is ok, Im coping with it.
Last night, in bed with my Husband ( he always picks bedtime for this stuff) he started a tirade about what a horrible person I am, just like my Dad ( he knows that upsets me) that I question everything he does and Im a right fuck up in the head. (sorry for swearing!)
I agree Im not perfect and can get so exasperated with him. Its like living with a two year old honestly! Moving house and he puts boxes in front of doorways and sits and watches me while I run up and down the stairs with stuff loads of times. He insists I go online and buy some waste bags, then insists I go out and buy some of those garden refuse bags that take garden waster as he can't wait( like a tonne load) then when I have done that and he takes it to the waste dump he then says he's going to pay someone to do it..it drives me nuts and I say so!
So life goes on, I am flipping exasperated at the way he goes on. and then the tirade. Yes I have been questioning everything.like why put boxes in front of doors jeeez!
but today after his rant about how horrible I am, (he knows I hate it in bed where he turns his back to me and turns out the light).I feel awful. Deeply depressed about myself.
How do I get a grip, shrug this off and get on with my day.
I was doing really well. Felt better than I have for a long time.
Moving house is ok, Im coping with it.
Last night, in bed with my Husband ( he always picks bedtime for this stuff) he started a tirade about what a horrible person I am, just like my Dad ( he knows that upsets me) that I question everything he does and Im a right fuck up in the head. (sorry for swearing!)
I agree Im not perfect and can get so exasperated with him. Its like living with a two year old honestly! Moving house and he puts boxes in front of doorways and sits and watches me while I run up and down the stairs with stuff loads of times. He insists I go online and buy some waste bags, then insists I go out and buy some of those garden refuse bags that take garden waster as he can't wait( like a tonne load) then when I have done that and he takes it to the waste dump he then says he's going to pay someone to do it..it drives me nuts and I say so!
So life goes on, I am flipping exasperated at the way he goes on. and then the tirade. Yes I have been questioning everything.like why put boxes in front of doors jeeez!
but today after his rant about how horrible I am, (he knows I hate it in bed where he turns his back to me and turns out the light).I feel awful. Deeply depressed about myself.
How do I get a grip, shrug this off and get on with my day.
Make today Day One on your own.
yes he's number 4.
But I do like to marry. I can't seem to settle into a relationship until I feel safe and secure in it. but I also know marriage is just an illusion. I married him because I relocated and if things fell apart I wanted to be taken care of. I have walked away from all my marriages without a penny. I vow not to do so with this one though!