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I have the hardest time relaxing and just having fun I am so worried about what has happen and whats going to happen that I can't just have fun. How do I get over this anyone have any ideas its so bad that I am pushing my girlfriend away.
I have fun reading a book, and watching historical movies. I have fun going to the Parks just to walk around and look around.
The idea of having "fun" by going to a amusement park and getting on some double loop roller coaster is NOT fun to me.
Anything with a potential danger is NOT to be fun - IMO.
I even do not like board games like Monopoly or checkers and chess as I see those as just wasting time and wasting time is not fun to me.
Have heard it said that people need to enjoy their work, and enjoy just being with family, and especially just being with a girlfriend, so "fun" can have whatever definition you put on it your self.
Drinking booze can be fun for some people, while bird watching is fun for other people.
Instead of trying to have "fun" then perhaps you might try just to relax, and try to wind down, and get the stress out, as simple and safe kinds of fun.
That is what I do, and I have lots of such fun.
I hope you have lots of fun!
I hope you have a good life!
Also, I agree with Booky!!!
sincerely,
heathercliff