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So, I just got a text from my EX (whom I have not removed myself from). I generally don't wait more than 1 minute before I text back. She on the other hand doesn't always text me back. I get that she doesn't think we always need to text. Although she texts people the entire time we're together and has always been that way. Even when we were in our most passionate stage. She said she has issues with her phone (as in OCD) so, I deal with it. Anyway's off track.
My question is why am I afraid if, I don't text back she will stop loving me. Then I think she texts me right when she wakes up so, I must be the first thing she thinks of when she wakes up. To much thought I know!
When she is on vacation of out of town for the weekend, she texts me so much...I hate being confused.
So, I just got a text from my EX (whom I have not removed myself from). I generally don't wait more than 1 minute before I text back. She on the other hand doesn't always text me back. I get that she doesn't think we always need to text. Although she texts people the entire time we're together and has always been that way. Even when we were in our most passionate stage. She said she has issues with her phone (as in OCD) so, I deal with it. Anyway's off track.
My question is why am I afraid if, I don't text back she will stop loving me. Then I think she texts me right when she wakes up so, I must be the first thing she thinks of when she wakes up. To much thought I know!
When she is on vacation of out of town for the weekend, she texts me so much...I hate being confused.
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wow you are really overthinking this (code behavior) dont mean that as a negative. just really is code. my ex calls me all the time and it is annoying and i feel invaded. as far as being the first thing that she thinks of when she wakes, it might be an annoyed thought also that she had better get it out of the way and text before you get upset! texting to me is very annoying and is really disrespectful to those around. you are afraid that she will stop loving you if you do anything wrong and you need to focus on yourself and waht you want and not on her and what will keep her around and loving you.
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My ex has his phone wirth him always but as so often ignored my calls and texts. Actions speak louder than words.
Xtina
Thanks ladies!
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