Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
I look at all the junk on the floor around my apartment, the dishes that need to be washed and I know that this was not me. I have put so much focus on my boyfriend and his issues and my previous boyfriend I have forgotten to take care of me. I know that it will take time to take care of me.
I know this is not how I used to be as a person, but can codependency really effect a persons life in this way?
I know this is not how I used to be as a person, but can codependency really effect a persons life in this way?
Before u know it ur loosing urself in others and others needs. I was there i became lazy didnt have interest for anything ... gained 40 pounds 2years. By end of it i didnt know who i was because i was too focused on others. Lost 25$weight and now being focused on wellness both health and wealth.
I am codependent. It can effect your life in a big way. I go to CODA meetings sometimes.
You and your personal well being should come first. I have found that I cannot change anyone whether it is thir behavior, cleanliness, attitude...or whatever. Its really hard becauseI want to have a relationship, but I need t have it for the right reasons...just keep telling yourself that you are beautiful, and deserve everything in life YOU want!!! :)