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to get my ex to come over. I offer money or food (she's not working) and lives down the street w/my Grams. So, she just came over & left. (She came by earlier too) both times I fall to my knees and cry. I want things to be normal until I let my codependacy get the best of me & time after time...
I don't wanna cry anymore. I don't want to love her,
I text her twice..saying I've never slept in her new bed or that she never invites me for a movie (I know she watching movies w/ppl that's how she is) I also, said I want you to sleep on the couch w/me and hold me like b4. I said I know you want to be friends but, I want one day and I still love you w/all my heart. Then said sorry for being emotional.
I don't want her to control my life (she thinks I want to control hers) because when lifes going well w/her she 4gets abt me. We'll at least it feels that way.
Shes codependent but I can't tell...
I don't wanna cry anymore. I don't want to love her,
I text her twice..saying I've never slept in her new bed or that she never invites me for a movie (I know she watching movies w/ppl that's how she is) I also, said I want you to sleep on the couch w/me and hold me like b4. I said I know you want to be friends but, I want one day and I still love you w/all my heart. Then said sorry for being emotional.
I don't want her to control my life (she thinks I want to control hers) because when lifes going well w/her she 4gets abt me. We'll at least it feels that way.
Shes codependent but I can't tell...
If this chic is making you miserable, stop the cycle. I used to feel desperate to be around my b/f when we were still in dating mode, and he HATED it and I pushed it. Now, I am with someone who has learned that he can get ANYTHING from me based on my emotional response to him and giving him the control. Now that I have taken that control back I feel like myself, I feel bitter and resentful. Stop the cycle now, go learn to by HAPPY FOR YOURSELF, because you are the only person who can make you happy. That is the truth.
PS Thanks for your reply!