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I want to get rid of a person who I no longer want to be friends with. I tried in the past to get rid of her and nothing is working. I talked with her and totally ingored her. She does not get it or does not want to get it.
So, what else can I do? Any suggestions?
ladydi1961
So, what else can I do? Any suggestions?
ladydi1961
When I am direct and they don't get it....I either put up the hand...or I have to go so far as not answer the phone...not answer the door, remind them again.
Some people do not take no for an answer because they do not want to get it or they have problems we cannot solve. They have no boundaries nor respect ours. Those are the people we do not want our lives entangled with once we realize we want to disengage. Be like a broken record....if you know how records used to be played back in the day, they would get stuck and play the same thing....tell her something like daystar said and don't argue or engage in a conversation or offer excuses. Thats is my humble opinion or suggestion.
Kenoa
When I am direct and they don't get it....I either put up the hand...or I have to go so far as not answer the phone...not answer the door, remind them again.
Some people do not take no for an answer because they do not want to get it or they have problems we cannot solve. They have no boundaries nor respect ours. Those are the people we do not want our lives entangled with once we realize we want to disengage. Be like a broken record....if you know how records used to be played back in the day, they would get stuck and play the same thing....tell her something like daystar said and don't argue or engage in a conversation or offer excuses. Thats is my humble opinion or suggestion.
Kenoa
When I am direct and they don't get it....I either put up the hand...or I have to go so far as not answer the phone...not answer the door, remind them again.
Some people do not take no for an answer because they do not want to get it or they have problems we cannot solve. They have no boundaries nor respect ours. Those are the people we do not want our lives entangled with once we realize we want to disengage. Be like a broken record....if you know how records used to be played back in the day, they would get stuck and play the same thing....tell her something like daystar said and don't argue or engage in a conversation or offer excuses. Thats is my humble opinion or suggestion.
Kenoa